Do you have a specific "combination" like this that you are automatically attracted to? I've always thought that blonde hair, pale skin, and all black clothes are just a stunning combination for some reason.
I never really realized it before, but those magazine articles that say best colors/styles for your skin color, body type, face shape, hair color, etc give really good ideas on what just pops for each look.
Some examples I can think of off the top of my head For blonde, I think dark black mascara and eyeliner looks strikingly gorgeous. For tan skin, I think red lip colors look stunning and sultry. For really dark skin, the color orange for some reason just looks amazing.
I'm so pale with naturally dark hair. I can hardly wear dark clothes or make up without looking "goth" or whatever. After a while I just embraced it and told myself, "be the goth princess 12 year old you wished you could be. "