I live in New York City and know lots of people here in the city and it seems that the less attractive girls, and average girls are the ones that get the guys. The beautiful model looking girls are the ones getting their hearts broken and can't find a guy to settle down with. So why is this do guys actually prefer the average looking girl when looking for a relationship?
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beautiful girls often get a lot of attention but mainly attract guys who just want sex
usually a guy that is super confident and wants to get laid will go after the most beautiful girl he can find, but that doesn't mean anything good because QUALITY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN QUANTITY. also since beautiful girls have higher standards and may be more likely to choose from guys with status or good looks...these guys know they are in high demand and often have the attitude that girls are replaceable (if I can get 1 hot girl I can get another one) and not take her as seriuosly
most of the girls I see that are in happy long term relationships are not all that hot. most of them are cute at best but usually average or a little unattractive. I think guys probably feel more comfortable with that kind of girl because he doesn't have a lot of competition for her attention, and because less pretty girls are more likely to not have to rely on their beauty. I'm not saying all beautiful girls have only looks to rely on we know that's not true, but many average girls know they don't have guys falling to their feet and never did, so they become more down to earth, caring and nurturing to a relationship...and because the guys that they get are usually the kind of guy who puts personality as a bigger priority therefore isn't mostly about sex and collecting notches on his bedpost.1