I used to know a girl named Tara who had a very curvy, very shapely, very womanly body. It was the kind of body that was big everywhere but the waist, basically meaning the perfect hourglass, with curves to spare. She did not, however, have a pretty face to go along with her centerfold-grade body.
She had a sister named Tami who was the exact opposite of her: Gorgeous, model-like face, but totally featureless body, completely devoid of any shape at all. No butt, no chest, no hips, no nothing. Almost as if she hadn't even gone through puberty.
The funny thing is that both of them were always so envious of the way each other looked. Why couldn't either one be happy with what they had?
And ladies, which one would you rather be like, if you had to choose?
I like being really curvy, so I would have to say the first one..Tara...and if the story is real, I can maybe help you understand why they couldn't be happy with what they had...ya see girls usually want what they don't or can't have...its hard to accept yourself especially in this world today...it took me forever to learn to like my body! I have a nice butt and thighs, and I have a nice top, but I was always upset because my waist was small, and everything else was bigger...later I came to realize that I had the curves in the right places, and I just needed to accept myself for who I am...its not always easy to tho...trust me!
I think it depends. If Tara's face looks like a Neanderthal's and on a scale of 1-10, her face is a -3, then I would rather be Tami. If Tara's face is just kinda average and her face is like a 4, then I would rather be Tara.
but by the sound of things, you mean that Tara's face is a 1 and her body is a 10 and Tami's face is a 10 and her body is a 1...in that case, I would rather be Tami.
I guess I kind of relate to Tara in this scenario. I have the curves and my face is decent looking but I do not like my curves. It's hard for me to feel comfortable in a dress or skirt. I just don't think I should be wearing a dress because of my shape. I don't exactly want to be featureless but what I have now isn't anything to write home about either.
I don't want to be sought after for my body. I want someone to know all of me, not something that is only skin deep. And with the right clothing style anyone can work a less than curvy bpdy ;). Also it's all about how you carry yourself. Be charming, happy, funny, adventurous, confident, all those sort of things, and it won't really matter.
I would rather have a beautiful face because there is always gonna be someone who likes your figure. Some guys like girls with no curves so she could work with that. I would never want to have an ugly face though =(