I want to look good for myself first. Then I want to get checked out by some guys while I am there. And of course I want to stay in style and maybe get a compliment or two. I'm not frumpy but you definitely wouldn't think I'm slutty if you saw me.
Its not really a matter of wanting people to think I look nice, it is the fact that I want people to know that I am comfortable and I won't go out of my way to impress people who most likely won't care. I dress for comfort. Sure, I try and keep up with fashion, but I will be the first to tell anyone that I won't go out every single day to buy something new that just came out. I don't really want people to notice me because I am the type that doesn't like to be the center of attention. So if anything, I will wear a pair of bluejeans, and tee shirt, and a hoodie. If I am going out with my boyfriend, yes, I'll dress nice because his views, although not intimidating nor cruel, matter to me. Some people just try too hard to impress other people with how they dress. Its somewhat complicated, but it makes a lot of sense at the same time. I care about what I look like, but I won't go to the extent to overdo myself. I like to be a bit simple. Put on a little makeup, the jeans and tee like I mentioned, and be comfortable. Its how I feel best about myself. =]
When I go out where ever I go I mean everywhere. I want to people to look at me with respect. I don't want the guys to think that I am easy and I especially feel weird when they do those slow drive by feeling moves where its like their following you to check you out in their car or when their with their girlfriends but it gives me an ego trip lol. As for girls I just gotta look better well that's when I go really vain but its more of a I have better style. Even with my friends I gotta be the one who has the leadership look yet individuality and originality for STYLE. Its all about STYLE for me. At the beach I think how would my big brother react lol if I wore that lol.
To not look slutty, be comfortable and make a statement! I go out wearing dresses just because I think they are a dying clothing choice and because I like older fashioned clothing (so I will casually wear petticoats and bustle skirts), or statement tees for worthy causes or my gothic clothes just because I like them. But you want to bring attention to your best features so that also effects your clothes too.
first I wanna make sure I think I look good, then worry about others! I want guys to think I look hot, but not easy, and I want girls to think she is so pretty. At the beach I would wear something like this link I would want guys to think damn she is sexy, but not a slut, and girls think she is gorgeous, and I love her bikini!