I'm in university, and so I missed one of my lab last summer, and in the make up lab, I saw this ( lets call him A) guy. Now the entire 3 hours, I could sense his eyes on me, and I'm not gonna lie, but I found that I was instantly attracted to him. Now every time I looked his way, he was looking my way, and for the 3 hours I was in the same room with him, it was like electricity was running through me, and the entire room was on fire. So when the year began in the fall again, I noticed that he was in a couple of my classes and in one of my labs. Now how did I know he was in my lab? well when we had the first lab, I saw him from across the room, and once I saw him, I was hooked to him once again. the entire lab, he looked my way, I looked his way too, and a few times, he kept the staring going longer than normal...like he was telling me he was looking at me. Now at the end of the lab session, we had to separate into 2 groups, and so if you wanted to be in group 1 you had to write your name on one sheet, and if you wanted to be in group 2, you had to write your name on another. I got up, and I wanted to be in group1 , and I noticed that he was waiting to sign up for that group too. I decided to ask him a question and said, hey, your waiting for this group too, and he just said yea. and end of convo. so I waited for about 3 minutes for the crowd to die down, and then was like screw it, I'm gna write my name in group 2 instead, so I did, and he saw me, and he took his pencil, and wrote his name right under mine. I saw him 2 weeks later in my lab section, and since then, I see him look my way a lot during the labs, but he hardly ever talks to me or anyone else for that matter, we have spoken a couple times, but its always been brief. and if we see each other on the way out, or outside, he will smile, and I will smile back. Now back to classes we have together, so I always sit in the same spot, at the back, and he always sits behind me if he can, and if he can't sit behind me, he will sit in front of me, and I see him look my way when I walk by, and I sense his gaze on me. I think it might be just me, but then again, you should see the look he has on his face, its so confusing. He looks at me with piercing eyes, and a solemn face, like he's looking right through me. Another thing is that he hardly talks to girls, I have only seen him talking to his female lab partner, and that's about it honestly. We see each other constantly, everywhere, and I'm too scared to even smile his way. And I'm not a shy person, I can talk and do talk to my friends within the lab, and when he's around, but I just can't talk to him, or am afraid . What is going on with me, and I am just jumping to conclusion on my own, or is he staring for a purpose. PS. He's has a nice body, and I think he's handsome. I'm probably 15 pounds heavier/ not fat but "healthy". I guess, I don't even think he would find me attractive. PS. does he glance for a reason or do guys like to glace and stare.
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This sound so similar to my situation. I think I glance and stare like the guy you like! And yea he definately have a crush on you. And just like the guy, I can't bring myself to talk to my crush, if I do it will sound awkward, so the convo normally ends quickly.
Try this, try to accidently brush his arm when you walk pass him during labs, I imagine there will be a lot of moving around during labs. If you can, smile when he stares, see if he reacts.
I remember on the first months of lab classes, me and my crush used to just stare at each other as soon as we know the other person is in the same room. Seriously, as soon as I enter the lab class, the first thing I do is find her and our eyes lock on for most of the lab. Its electric like you say.
Oh yea, he prob thinks yur stunning too!0