What do guys notice first about a girl?

[Anonymous]

Smile? Eyes?

Or do you notice her body first?

What do you like girls to wear?

[GoodManDave]

Honestly, it depends on the woman.

Some women, it's the eyes. Miss Brown eyes was nicknamed obviously because of her eyes. I look at her eyes, and it's like a tractor beam. (yeah, ok, so I'm a dork)

Another girl, I really liked her hair; and when I looked at her more closely, I'm thinking to myself, "Wow, she has really pretty eyes..." but you wouldn't necessarily notice that first... or even then, unless you really looked into them.

There's a woman friend where a guy would probably notice the body first. When I got to know her better, I realized that she had a really great laugh. From a guy's perspective, it'd be really endearing, and I could totally see a guy falling for her because of her laugh.

There's another woman I'm interested in. She's beautiful. One of my friends said "a guy would have to be gay not to find her attractive..." and she has what seems like an awesome, genuine personality. She doesn't come off as a fake, though I wonder if it's too good to be true kind of thing. So it's a bit of everything with her.

There's two women I see through work, and honestly, I think they are the two most stylish women I know. They're cute, but I wouldn't particularly notice them - except their sense of style makes them look great.



Last girl I dated, we were platonic friends first. Honestly, I didn't think of her as an option - her sense of humor wasn't like mine, we didn't like the same things.. she didn't have the look I normally go for, etc... But she showed, at first at least, that she was a person I could be honest with and she wouldn't get angry if I didn't agree with her (I was wrong on that part, by the way, but that was what was attractive) - she also has a heart for dealing with people who aren't feeling well. That part of her personality was (and still is) really attractive to a guy like me. I became more attracted to her as the relationship progressed as I got to know her better.

[blufrenzy93]

Thats really nice :]

[icecreamlover]

The last part made me smile =)

[s3tupMayne]

When just LOOKING at a person, it doesn't really matter, my brain just checks out whatever it can see. It looks at the person's figure or the person's face, just whatever my eyes happen to be looking at (it's pretty random). And then if it likes the little bit that it sees, like defined cheekbones or nice lips, great hair, good stomach or jeans huggin the booty in all the right ways, there's like a little signal in my head that sorta goes "hang on keep looking at this one, we'll see where this is going". And then my brain looks over the rest of the body and just kinda evaluates.

But I mean that's when I'm passing by someone on the street.

When it comes to what I NOTICE about people first, it's the way they smile. If I see a person go from a totally straight face and then break out into a big warm smile, it's like someone showing their vulnerability, just letting a little bit of their personality go out. The way someone smiles is the first glimpse of someone's personality I get to see so that's the first thing that makes a person stand out to me as a MEANINGFUL person, not as just someone on the street.

[ashleynatasha]

Well its always attraction first with anyone !It depends on what you wear with who you attract!Men are visual creatures and they treat a girl on what she puts herself out as!Some men see past that and realize that we are all individuals

[SAR2be]

i think that from what I have seen, most guys notice smile first, then you body. but I know most guys look at a girls face then work there way down. from the back, the ass of course.

[Asker]

Haha ofcourse.. ass. that's what I'm afraid of.

[johnny_hustle]

The ass for a girl is like the perfect abs from guys, yeah it would be amazing to have but it isn't a dealbreaker. as long as its squishy and can fit in my hands I don't care. For me its definitely the smile, then the eyes, then her actions, sure you can't tell that without knowing her but the smile will draw me in, then I get to know her and if her personality fits the smile then her body no matter what shape will eventually become beautiful

[Snorkledorf]

Long answer:

My first impression comes from a woman's body language. The way she moves and sits and stands pre-colors the way I see her from that moment on, so when I inevitably check out her body next, I'm already predisposed to consider her sexy/not sexy/feminine/asexual/whatever. Other factors can then override this first impression, but it gets set in place first and colors everything that follows.

Someone with pretty body language, is pretty. Someone with sexy body language, is sexy. And someone with "I'm not very attractive" body language, isn't very attractive, regardless of whatever positive features she may have.

Next I check out her face (as a whole; the specific elements like eyes or lips are totally case-by-case), and then facial expression is the final key that I look for when deciding whether I'm really interested, or just looking.

I want someone who looks like she's "nice" in one way or another. You can have sexy-nice, or quiet/unassuming-nice, or keep-you-laughing-nice, or anything else. As long as she looks like she might be interested in talking with me should I choose to approach, then we're good to go.

On the other hand if she's looking totally standoffish, like "Go ahead, impress me," then it may not seem worth the effort, and I'll probably move on.

A disinterested or bored expression implies an uninteresting/boring personality (even though I know that it might just be the current situation that's dull). So that's important. Someone with a bland "I'm sleepwalking my way through life" expression can easily cancel out any other appeal she may have had.

Short answer: Her personality.

[ArizonaRX]

This is a multi-answerable question.

It really depends on the situation of actually seeing a girl. Like if I meet someone and it's a personal encounter, then her eyes, lips, hair and face in general.

If it's a girl in passing from behind, for sure I'm checking out her ass. If it's a girl in passing from the front, first her face, then move down to the breasts, then lower.

(Although, even if she looks good from any of these aspects, doesn't mean I'll be at all interested in her. It's just a once over.)

[MattMA]

It HAs to be smile and eyes. Yes, we notice ass and breasts at some point, but every guy will tell you that without the smile lighting up her eyes, the body becomes less important. As a man in his 30s, I have seen women of my age transform from tight sexy things into curvy feminine beauties! I am a huge believer that with age, we perfect our personality and the body matches who we really are. So to all the women, be beautiful on the inside, smile and you will be rewarded by the right guys for it!

[BrettH]

if I'm close up to the girl I look deeply into her eyes. eyes tell everything about the person. then I look at her smile from then on the rest of her body is fair game and at random.

as for clothes. I like somewhat modest clothing that is also really attractive and still makes her sexy.. shows she can take pride in her body with out having to expose herself.

[Asker]

Such a good answer! thanks a lot.

[asdg12]

The smile, the perfect smile always gets me, then the eyes and then the body. I know many people won't believe me that the body is the last thing that I look at it but it's the truth. I love a girl's smile, it truly brightens my day and makes me smile likewise. Then the eyes, I can tell so much by the eyes, the intention, the interest level, the passion. The eyes tell so much more emotion then people think

[EddyMetal]

I agree.

[A_20Chick]

Verry sweet now what body typ or duz it matter to you

[asdg12]

That all comes right after I notice her smile, I have never been with a bigger girl. I know everyone suddenly goes OMG you hate fat people. No I don't I just prefer to date them. I think it's all that TV that has programed me not to like it, I'm not sure. But I like toned fit girls, no not raging 6-pack but a girl who keeps herself in shape. I also love a girls ass but that really is the like the 4th thing on my list not gonna lie. I prefer a girls ass over breasts.

[kevlar]

For me it's her style. Sure girls can be physically attractive, but if they have no sense of style then it's over before it begins. I don't necessarily mean style that I prefer, I mean style that intrigues me. Just something that attracts me i.e. a neat little watch or a hot ass slogan tee. That's what gets me all the time. MMMmm Slogan tees.

[ohsolostgirl]

Lol clever

[midntpssg]

what I notice first is there eyes. then her smile. body comes later on. when I'm asked about a favorite body part I say the legs. nice smooth looking legs. not to built but definitely able to notice that the girl exercises. Clothes wise, doesn't really matter. but nothing really baggy.

[ArtistBboy]

Best answer IMO

[The_Upside]

being honest I would say whole face overall then her body, I love a cute smile and exotic eyes, I find that very attractive but then it comes down to personality if she's a bitch its a massive turn off to me.

clothing well for me I like the classy look and summer dresses and also you don't need to wear to much make up I think a girl looks hotter without to much

[bobair]

Honestly? I hope you can take this...

Over time these are the things I notice (and appreciate) in order:

Ass

Tits

Face

Body Language

Smile

Lips

Eyes

Smell

Neck

Belly

Legs

Skin

Personality

Anger (or lack of)

Insecurities (defensiveness)

Sense of Humor

Pride (or lack of)

Sincerity

Heart

Soul

I hope this helps...

~ Robby

My blog ( link )

[Sky-High]

I guess I notice body first, and then look to the face to CONFIRM the opinion I'm forming about her. ie if her body is good, I look to her face to see what kind of person she is (lively, cold, etc). If the two don't match, then I hold back until I know them better.

In terms of wearing, well yeah tight is good. Skirts are always a plus, v-neck tops, and of course heels are God's gift to women to apologise for the men he made! :) GLADIATOR SANDLES ARE OUT!

[Stefan_R]

I personally notice how a girl carries herself. How she walks, how she talks, how she smiles. I care about the way a girl presents herself, and if she does a good job then I might look elsewhere if I am interested. I like when a girls is dressed with jeans and heels. Also a top that shows cleavage and is tight around the waist.

[Xplic1T]

Oh gosh, well lets see.. I tend to notice lips/smile first and then hair and eyes ... then I start to check the rest of the girl out and that involves the legs and chest ...

Curvy girls are nice ... so I'm looking for a coke bottle figure

[ITLSTL]

For me its always face, they can have a bangin body and an awesome personality but if they don't have an attractive face ill never be able to look at them as more of a friend, unless maybe I'm drunk, then maybe.

[TexPlayboy]

I notice overall shape, and then her smile. I enjoy seeing a woman who has an open personality and alert to the attention I am giving her. Her smile will let me know if she is interested in innocent flirting.

Good Luck,

James

[ArtistBboy]

Hair or Physique - From the back / At a distance

Smile or Style - From the front / Up close N' personal

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[Asker]

Very nice answer :)

[nice_guy7]

eyes or breasts.

if it is from behind, her ass.

and I like it when girls wear stuff that isn't slutty but still shows us what shape their body is. something tight basically.

[blueandwhitebleeder]

I first notice her face, her smiles, her hair length, then her breasts. After that, look at her hips. I don't want her to have too much of a gut, but a little bit of pudge is nice.

[cboy101]

i notice the hair... the hair tells how the girl takes care of her self... same for dudes but still.. think about it

[sota13]

def eyes first . . . catch personality, mood, appearance, vibe . . .

[MadHatterni]

Distance figure, close up will be sense of humor. Looks fade but if the girl can keep that smile on my face, she can't be replaced