I mean..when you guys see amazingly beautiful girl...do you think that you aren't good enough for her and you are afraid to make your move and you are also afraid of getting rejected? Do you first think sexually about her?
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There's a few different reasons:
1. Just the fact that she's so beautiful makes her EXTREMELY intimidating
2. There's a little voice inside your head that makes presumptions about her personality based on her looks, all of which are negative, and those are that:
2a. She's going to reject you because she thinks/knows she's way out of your league, and she's going to be extra demeaning about it because she's appalled that someone so far "beneath" her would approach her.
2b. If by chance she doesn't reject you, she's a huge high maintenance drama queen who will only drag you along for a few months of misery and THEN cut you down.
3. She's used to getting hit on by guys who only want her for one thing, and even though you're different, you find that she's making just as many presumptions about you as you are about her because of all the crap she's put up with from other guys in the past, even though you know (or hope, anyway) that you're different from the rest because you have more honorable intentions.1