If you don't want a golddigger than be thankful you aren't rich, it depends on the guy but a lot of rich men just tend to throw money at the girl and I would feel like he was trying to buy me, I don't have this problem with men that aren't rich. And I would never date a really really good looking man because I'd feel so insecure and always be worried about him cheating since he could get any girl he wanted. So personally, I couldn't care less if a guy had no money and I defo do not want someone who looks like a model.
It just depends on who it is. Personally, I think shallow people are terrible.
I'm not really shallow so I can't exactly answer on behalf of the ones who are.
But, I guess find a girl who isn't shallow who goes on personality. Of course, who you are also interested in.