Like I see a lot of times... "eww he's too into me!" or something... "that's such a turn-off"
Well... He probably loves you, just because you don't feel the same way at that moment in time doesn't mean you have to label the guy as a creep or be turned off entirely. And if a guy is totally nervous, I don't think girls even understand what its like to pursue a girl that has like that "power" over them... its really nerve-wrecking to pursue a girl you just can't resist. I don't think girls give guys enough credit.
I, for one, would be THRILLED if I found out that an attractive girl was like totally into me, or was nervous around me. I think this just proves that guys have bigger hearts than girls... I never labeled a girl a creep that showed interest in me. ;)
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First, some of us women, for me for example, find that really CUTE.
When I first met my "shy" bf, he really wasn't sure that I liked him. It's still shaking him now that we've been together for like 4 months. He still asks me why I miss his face or love him, and I always say everything I love about him inside and out. It takes re-assuring all over again, and I don't mind doing that at all if that's what it takes him to believe in himself and believe in me that I'm into him as much as he is into me.
Some of us are used to men chasing after us. When I met that shy guy who showed subtle signs that he was interested in me but was really afraid to make that move, it CONFUSED the hell out of me. Like, "why isn't he coming after me?". So I had to be proactive in doing stuff, making sure he wasn't thinking I was being too needy or too much for him. I did flat out ask him if he felt that way, and he always says "Never!".
So, when I read this, I felt like my boyfriend wrote this. :) I totally understand how you feel. And it's ok. You will find a girl who can understand that. Promise.
Good luck and take care!