I'm in a 3 and a half year relationship with my boyfriend. Every now and then, I find myself feeling a little insecure. But I know I have a great guy who's committed, faithful, ethical, and all that good stuff. Sometimes though, I just really wish I could read his mind when he sees a hott girl. We even share a friend who I think is gorgeous and I wonder what he's thinking when she's in view. He tells me any girl no matter what they look like are just ordinary girls to him and I have nothing to worry about. But, is that really how it is?
Guys, if you truly love your girlfriend. But are in the presence of or merely see a hott girl. What goes through your mind? Thoughts about the girl and your girlfriend? Anything your girlfriend should be worried about?
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You probably have nothing at all to worry about, but he may still take notice. It's hard not to. He's not shopping for a newer model, but the girls walking around with healthy features and scant clothing don't exactly look like furniture. Keep in mind too that he knows there are better looking guys with muscles, flashy cars or a position of power. He wouldn't want you drooling over the guy, so he's going to respect that you don't want him doing the same. I have several stories about noticing girls. Too keep this short, I had a girlfriend who was everything to me, but insecurity consumed her and became the reason we split up. Did I look now and then? Sure. But more times than not, I was picturing how my girl would look in an outfit like that. Other times I was staring into space and never noticed a girl. But it was always assumed that I was looking and it got old real fast. I hope that helps.1