I REALLY don't want to be grouped in with all these other hoes at the clubs. I want to have fun and be a lady, that's more me. I feel happy and comfortable that way but sometimes guys automatically group you in as a trashy club party girl if they see you surrounded by them. I want to stand out. What should I do/wear?
Not too much make up. Dress or skirt not too short. Top not too low/revealing. Conduct yourself in a ladylike fashion, don't drink too much, don't go kissing multiple guys or disappear with them. If anything don't do what you don't feel/ wouldn't feel comfortable doing if no alcohol was involved.
If you're at the club you're gonna be thought of as a hoe.
It's mostly in the face, a girl can look and dress sexy but you can tell she's not slutty, some other girls dress similar but they've just got a slutty face, they look like they'd have a one night stand no problem.
My usual go-to look at the club is 1) a flowy top, 2) skinny jeans, and 3) either flats or heels. The loose top with the form-fitting bottoms make for a nice balance, and it's sexy without looking like you're trying too hard.