I don't think it's so weird about the style -- this style is fine. (Very, very possibly you might have to wear a dress or skirt for some stupid function, but this is the only wrinkle, pun intended.) Maybe the part about not liking being called a girl is a little weird. Because really, it's ok to be a girl, even more than ok. Well, I would prefer that other people do it, it's not for me. But it's just as ok to be a girl as a boy. Don't worry too much about this, though.
No, I don't think its wierd. I am like that also, some people call it 'tomboy' style. I didn't like being called a girl either, because it made me feel like I was being stereotyped or something, and I hate dresses too.