am planning to start working out, but I'm curious how far should I go. what sort of back do you girls find most attractive and is mine ok? I don't mean to sound conceited because I'm truly not. I actually do not ever show off my body just because I am in general not a show off kinda guy. so girl am I ok
In all honesty? I don't like a guy that's majorly ripped. I think your picture is fine the way it is! Just don't over think it. As long as you take care of yourself and YOU feel good about yourself that's all that matters. If the only thing a girl is looking for is how good your body is, then she isn't worth it. She's probably conceited herself. Being completely confident and feeling good about yourself is way more attractive then someone who is wondering if they're good enough in someone elses eyes. Don't think about so much as to what others would want you to be. So don't go to extremes! As long as your being yourself, being friendly, and confident then you'll be fine. :)
Insecurity is not something that we look for in a man, so be how you think you should be. You should seek your own comforts first, so I can't really guide you in any direction. I think you should just start exploring workouts to see what suits you best and what kind of diet or plan you'd need to have to achieve your body goal. Just in general, a guys muscles isn't all that matters to us, they only become a plus if his personality is worth it. If we see that you take care of your body and you care about your image, that's what matters to us the most. You could be the hottest guy in the gym but a complete waste of relationship time. I could never understand why guys think they need to be the biggest or most toned thing strutting around, just being healthy is enough. And please... Don't be in the gym, see an attractive girl and suddenly start groaning and straining like it's "suddenly" so heavy, if it were that heavy it would have been before we walked by. It's not hot, it's annoying and funny! Good luck He-man!
Personally (girls' tastes vary quite a lot, so don't be discouraged) I would definitely prefer if you worked on your midsection and upper arms. You have broad shoulders so bigger upper arms will probably do better to balance them out.
agree with sweet hearts. defined backs are sexy and broad shoulders. I'm not crazy about six packs or whatever. like when I hug a guy I want to feel his shoulders are strong. I don't know I'm weird :P. I also agree with being happy with how you look and feel is what's most important when working out and being healthy.
YOU STill NEED to work on your body so hard, Go to a gym alot! SO YOU CAN SHOW SOME strong muscles in the chest and in the arms and to get a strong back.
the way you stand is wrong!so it makes your back LOOKS awful . Head up try to put books on your head and walk with it a lot so you can have a healthy stand lol seriously! you don't stand that healthy stand which makes you look confident.
Hey man I'm a dude but I kind of have some experience with this stuff... I'm kind of a skinny/lean type of guy but have some pretty defined muscles too. I don't think all women like guys that are COMPLETELY ripped like it can seem sometimes. Just work out enough where you like the results and you feel a little stronger every couple weeks or so. Don't push yourself too hard either, these things take a lot of time and patience. But in the end I promise it will make you feel great (gives your brain lots of serotonin and endorphins which is really good for you) and it should boost your self-esteem. The funny thing is that as make it part of your lifestyle, then the worries about what people think of you -- especially how you look -- start to fade. Hey I'm not saying that you'll love how you look, but it's definitely more tolerable when you're working out or exercising each day and feel like you're getting somewhere. Best of luck, you should look forward to it because it's fun :)