Hey, there's only one way I care about what other poeple do and that's if they are trying to stop me from doing what I want to do. Work whatever job you want, date who you want, live where you want, just leave alone and we are Gucci lol.
It does kind of bother me, just like when a girl wears high waist even though she doesn't have the right body shape for it, it just looks strange to me. People can wear whatever the hell they want, but for me its just like, as long as they can pull it off. Maybe there are some chubby girls who can absolutely pull off a crop top but I am yet to see one.
I just think people should wear what fits them, what is appropriate for them for their size. There are certain things that people of different sizes should and shouldn't wear. People can wear what they want though. My motto is just to be classy and not trashy. You don't need to overexpose yourself to look cute or be sexy or anything.
I bought a crop top recently to wear with a high waisted skirt. So I know not much of my stomach will show, but I'm still kind of anxious to wear it. Because I'm chubby. And yet some part of me really wants to wear it even if I hate how it looks on me just as a kind of... fuck you to people dictating my clothing choices lmao
The thing that bothers me is that people seem to equate "I can wear what I want" to "Whatever I want to wear automatically looks good on me because I'm wearing it". So, no, I will not tell you that you cannot wear that shirt, but if you ask me if you look good in it, you will receive my honest opinion. Good or bad.
I don't care, people should wear whatever they wanna wear. Personally I think it's more flattering to dress for your body shape, but hey it's cool if someone's confident enough to go against society norms.