guys like sluts because they're easy, don't like or respect them at all but will sleep with them just to get laid completely ignore all the girls who are nice, classy, and not slutty even though they respect them more and see them as marriage material. So are all of us nice, classy, non-slutty girls just supposed to wait until you guys have gotten you share of free sex and in the mean time wonder why we never get laid and wind up generally feeling unattractive and unwanted just because we don't open our legs for whoever walks by? I'm trying to figure out where any of this makes sense, why not just ditch the slutty girls and all the diseases they come with and go to the classy girls who will sleep with you just not 5 minutes after they meet you?
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So is it just the attention you're jealous of, or is it something more? So you want a whole bunch of guys to hit on you with out them getting what they want. They as in the slutty guys that most of is on this post are talking about. So the slutty guys that are the only ones you seem to be going after, or waiting for, don't want to sit there and wait because it takes to to long or too much effort. I agree that it's lazy and unfair to you, but come on, the world isn't a fair place. I hate it when people like to generalize. I mean come on be real, is anyone in life going to take a shortcut or go the long way. quite a bit of people are going to take a shortcut for convienence. Just because you're the type of person that wants a deep and serious relationship, doesn't mean everyone else has to. You talk about these slutty girls and all of the negative aspects about it. how about a relationship that you get extremely commited to, and you break. everything ends badly, what about all the heartache and stress. I mean be reasonable. and by your thought process a non slutty girl isn't going to have a disease, what about the girls that are born with it. So we don't know who has or doesn't. So what do I say, I'll add on to what the other guy said, if those are the guys that you keep noticing, open your eyes. The guys that are out there hitting on women one after another are not us that are waiting for our moments.1