If a person that you don't know very well, and never talked to much, but you might have watched from afar/had a crush on made a drastic change on their apperance - like going from a bit chubby to very fit, going from dark hair to blond, etc - would your oppinion of that person change?
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Unfortunately looks to have apparent value when it comes to physical attraction. The person is not known to the observer, it might be the difference between initial interest in getting to know the person and no interest in the person what so ever. In personal experience, I can say that appearance has little to do my personal feelings of the individual I might be interested in. The situation remain, regardless, very clear and similar: you do not know the person and that person is going to be the same. If a crush would be developed on that person by the observer, it would be nothing more that a representation of the ideals and feelings of the observer alone in which that crush would be developed; as that is all the observer has to go on. I recommend that if you are going to change your appearance, which would show the person that you might be interested and get them initially interested, go within your comfort level and within your own personal expression.1