Nakedness is boring and unoriginal. It takes zero planning and no forethought.
Lingerie on the other hand, requires that you think ahead of time. The act of choosing the lingerie, buying the lingerie, deciding when to where the lingerie and actually putting it on all result in thinking about sex before the event.
When you are young and relationships are many and fleeting, the need to manufacture novelty just isn't there.
In a committed monogamous relationship, since your sexual partner stays the same, lingerie helps add novelty and keeps things interesting.
You are also thinking rather narrowly with regard to the lingerie that is available. There are many designs that are easily worn while having sex.
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First off, it is special as well as sexy. Secondly, they may see it for a brief bit of time but in their minds eye, they will see it for years!
Just a tip for you, maybe if you tease him for a few minutes while in it by being coy you will have more time in it and will likely push him over the edge in being that one girl, one night that he thinks back one even decades later.
It can be like a work of art, some guys are really visual. They like to see the woman in something sexy, let their imaginations go for a moment, and then get to it. It is a turn on for some.
Just like in fine dining, why spend so much effort on a beautiful plate arrangement when you are going to it it up? It's pleasing to the eyes first, then maybe smell, then taste.
My boyfriend rarely notices it unless I make a point of walking around undressed and just in said lingerie.
I love buying it, nonetheless though. It makes me feel much hotter plus confident knowing that I'm wearing something very sexy-looking underneath. Helps me get in the mood for my boyfriend's benefit even more than usual.
"What's the point of showering when you're just gonna get dirty again?"
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It's underwear and sleep wear
The fact that it's sexy is just a bonus
Some women wear it under their clothes just to feel sexy and confident at work even though no one else sees it the placebo effect is there
and apparently it's super comfortableAgreed sorry but it's so minuscule and irrelevant and beyond overrated. I want to see touch and be able to touch feel taste and love every inch of my ladies body without any interference.
I've always wondered this to. I've always thought it was more for women (to feel sexy). I prefer you out of it anyway so why bother lol. And it's expensive.
Actually I like when she leaves the lingerie on for awhile. Lingerie is like Christmas wrap, it's fun to unwrap the present nice and slow and enjoy it.
For the tease... it's the gift wrapping, before the real present... and sometimes she will make me wait before I get to rip, or even carefully and slowly remove the lingerie... she likes the anticipation and building that sense of sexual yearning...
Lingerie can be for the girl too - How she feels wearing it, going out to buy it, wearing it under her outfit can be a form of foreplay to her.
Actually I have found 90% of the time its for the women, to feel sexy. Guys usually prefer naked.
We like lingerie probably because of the mystery of what's underneath there, even if we've seen you naked before. It's like opening a Christmas present and you kind of know what to expect but you're still very excited on what's underneath.
Firstly; I never see it in real and rip it off..
But then I must tell that women must seem girlish and like a real woman; like the men must. Every girly thing will fit on them, and will arouse our feelings :) This is the reason.Because sometimes the anticipation of something good is the best part.
I don't really like lingerie. I'd prefer to just see her naked
Makes her feel sexy and pretty. And kinda forplay because us guys are very visual! Shake it strut it bend over and show it lol.
We do? I tend to like the person wearing the lingerie, i couldn't give a damn about the undies themselves lol, I'm gunna rip them off anyways! ;)
Whaat? They dont even enjoy it. Wear it while you fuck, strip tease, lots of foreplay. What is wrong with these guys?
Cause it is tantalizing and we like ripping it off. Also sometimes we like to fuck them while they're still wearing it :DDD
it makes a hot body look even sexier. and you don't need to take it off immediately
Women don't dress for men
Also, I think men generally like things women wear because, secretly, we want to wear them ourselves. No guy really WANTS to admit it but, it's like guys with boobs, we WANT what we can't haveI really don't know, I don't see the point either, your gonna be naked in a minute so who cares XD
It's like the promotion before the amazing show starts.
Well, if she doesn't like lingerie, then that's fine, too. I prefer nudity anyway.
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