I'm going to wear nice quality leggings and heels but I'm not sure what to do about the top.
1. Black spaghetti strapped top with a colored jacked (green or deep blue most likely)
2. Red sleeveless top with a neckline that reaches in between my boobs and its back is quite open (but I'd probably be wearing a jacket most of the time).
2 definitely stands out more, not just because of the neckline, but also the color... it's a nice red. But I don't want it to be too much.
If I wear 1, it's mostly black and the only color (blue) is a dark color. I think I'd feel more comfortable in this but is too dark?
the guy I'm going out with already knows I wear black often but is it weird or unattractive if a girl wears dark colors?
Most Helpful Guy
Hey, I agree with the girl's response - go big or go home! :) I do understand the red top sounds a scarier option, especially if the back means you can't wear a bra (visible bra, HUGE no-no!) but honestly, it sounds absolutely awesome! :) It will blow the guy away, and I would bet that once you're there, and once you see the effect you've had on his little mind, you'll feel a million dollars in it too!! That top and the rest of your outfit together sound truly outstanding - the very fact that you own the top means you must be at least a little bit daring by nature, or you'd like to be, so DO IT - be brave, wear red, and own that guy's mind!! :)
Wearing a relatively daring top absolutely does not imply anything else about what you're up for - absolutely nothing - it's great that you know your boundaries and I strongly encourage you to enforce them! But what you wear is not about that, it's about having fun, making a statement and feeling amazing. The black top is not going to do that - go red, or go home! :) Enjoy!0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow him with #2 , go bold or go home right?0