I'm really ugly. I have an ok personality (introverted, shy, artistic, creative, imaginative, and sarcastic) I'm tired if looking in the mirror, and cringing. My hair is slow growing, and its hard to style without me looking stupid. I'm kind of short for a 14 year old (5'6) and I have a hideous body. I'm and apple shape, which makes my arms slim, and my midsection thick. I look weird because I'm thick in the middle, but smaller on the bottom. I have no curves, or wide hips. I have a gut (its noticeable in certain clothes but east to conceal) I have a weird voice that sounds like a guy going through puberty (I don't sound like a girl). Overall, I'm not attractive. I'm not allowed to wear makeup either, and I can't afford trendy clothes.
Most Helpful Guy
You're not short. The average adult woman in the u. s. is under 5'5"
If your voice is sort of that cracking voice... well a lot of guys actually find that pretty sexy.
The gut doesn't help, if your'e being honest, which based on claiming to be a short 5'6" i'm inclined to not believe.
If you post a pic with your face blurred so we can see hair and body we might be able to give more constructive advice.0
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm, it would be easier to offer advice if I knew your budget on clothes and jewelry?
A picture could help me decide what style would look best for you, however...
You're personality is awesome! (First of all)
And fashion is all about revealing your personality, who you really are, through what you wear. Introverted? Darker shades such as indigo, maroon, and dark purple would be perfect. Creative? A large spiral necklace or dichotomous glass earrings- anything bold- will bring out that creative front. And what says creative more than creating your own jewelry? I had a friend once who made her own, and anytime she got a comment on it she'd be like, "thanks, i made it myself" that adds intrigue, and it's cool!
Remember that for jewelry, creativity = bold :) That means don't try to match the color of your necklace with the rest of your outfit. It's meant to stand out and say- hey, i'm cool. i'm creative and imaginative. Here's some DIY picks for you, and there are lots more where those came from!
As for clothes to find your colors, hit up some garage sales and thrift stores- it's amazing what $20 can buy when you know what you're looking for! Shopping takes time. Sometimes you'll browse and you'll find some good pics- other times not. Just make it on your list to browse a yard sale or thrift store once a week, and in two months time i promise you you'll find what you need to change your look to what suits you best.