Has anyone else ever noticed this? The guy has the looks, the body, the clothes, everything. I don't want to be him, or even be like him. What gives?
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Looks help but they are not the reason why girls like guys.
Women have a really difficult way of articulating why they like a guy. Because their whole world is emotion.
Its like trying to describe an emotion to someone. Their body acts, and their mind justifies it.
If you know girls they will talk up about a guy they like and describe him as tall and good looking. and then you meet him and he's like 5-4 and looks like Quasimodo.
None of the girls ever call her out on it either. because its her way of trying to put into words why she likes a guy.
Words are very surface level for women, they mean almost nothing.
The only thing she can do is put a label on why she likes a guy that is provided by stereotypes that other people give her.
For an insight on how women think you can go here, it explains pretty much everything you need to know about women. link After reading that you should know exactly why women do things.