If you have a look around in some shops you should be able to find some nice ones :) (the examples I gave you arnt like my shoes but couldn't find any like mine but the heels are similar though I have some with smaller heels than those but sort of the same shape of the heels)
not sure if this helped at all I just saw this and though I have some cute shoes at home that are basicaly flats but have nice small dainty heels and though I'd just say you can find shoes like that some times :D x
Go with flats. Besides, girls seem to care more about heels than guys do. The only reason why men find heels attractive is that it makes the butt stick out. A girl could go out wearing tissue boxes on her feet and the guy wouldn't notice.
I think that you should stick with the flats. Or if you really want to wear heels, maybe choose a smaller one? I just think that usually guys feel more comfortable when the girl is shorter, and it seems less awkward? Maybe that's why my guy always points out how much taller he is than me every time we see each other, haha. I'm a girl who loves to wear heels too, but around him, I rarely do and I'm okay with that!