Why do girls get angry when you look at their breasts?

So why do girls get mad when you look at their breasts? Like when girls wear tank tops and revealing to semi revealing clothes. If you are showing cleavage, I am going to have a look. If you don't want to cover up, then why be so defensive about it?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • On one side, past a certain cup size, it doesn't matter what we wear. That is frustrating. A guy once asked me if it made me uncomfortable when men look at my breasts when I wear a shirt like one I had worn the day before. My response was that I can't think about it. You see, on one side it presents the idea that I will never be just looked at as another person, but rather one to be checked out. The other side is that I was wearing a cardigan over the shirt he referred to in order to "cover up" as you put it. It doesn't matter what we wear. Women get upset, not for being checked out, but for the inevitability of it. I can't just be a lawyer or a doctor. I'm the hot or bigger or full figured or older, etc. lawyer or doctor. When you work in any kind of customer service industry, it's even worse.

    The other side is that there are women who go to the extent of putting glitter on their boobs, and for those situations, I think that anything short of harassment. C'mon you're wearing glitter and shoving your boobs to your chin- even I would look!

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What Girls Said 10

  • I don't think a quick glance is a big deal, but I went to high school with a kid who never looked me in the eye when we talked no matter what I was wearing, and that is incredibly annoying.

    When a guy stares at my chest, I feel like they acknowledge me for my body and nothing else. I've always put more emphasis on my personality, so being recognized for my body is irritating.

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  • hmm...i duno it doesn't bother me,...i know if they're not looking at them then they are either thinking about them or thinking about something a little lower...

    so id rather they look..but..dont touch...unless given permission to do so lol

    and guys can glance at them but don't stare...it makes you seem like a pig...she prefers it when you talk to her face...not her chest...

    wearing revealing clothes gives a girl confidence and makes her feel good about herself...but don't treat her like a piece of meat...

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  • well it depends on how each girl feels personally when a guy does it to me, I feel like he's only talking at me just to gawk at my body and not actually trying to get to know me as a person.

    when I wear revealing clothes I know guys are going to look but when your being out right rude about it and just staring to the point where I can just feel you seriously focusing on my boobs of course I'm going to get pissed off and tell you something. it's just the way things work.

    i mean there is nothing wrong with looking but seriously don't stare. especially if your talking to the girl and doing it in her face.

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    • I've been yelled at and slapped for a quick glance as I was passing by. What is considered staring? I don't look at her boobs if I am talking to her.

    • Oh no! really? I've never known girls to be at dramatic! but really

      a girl can see when a guy has totally zeroed in on her chest. don't ask me how we just can a subtle look might do. do you smile or have one of those creepy looks on your face when you do it?

  • well I personally don't get mad at all, when I wear low cut shirt I know full well that guys are looking at them because they tell me, but I know that they are joking around with me just because my boobs are big so they look.

    the only time it bothers me is when guys talk to my boobs, FYI buddy these don't talk lol

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  • We wear revealing clothes so that you'll like what you see, and come over to talk to us. Then when we've attracted your attention, that's the time for talking to us and finding out who we are, and for looking into our eyes. Your bulging eyes looking down doesn't help us to find out who you are, either!

    Sue

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  • Deep down, girls want you to like them for their character, not their boobs. And when you look at their boobs, they think you just like them for their boobs.

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    • Then why show it off? It's like if I don't wear pants, I would expect you to look at my penis. Why would I get mad at you looking at something I choose to expose. Shuttup or coverup.

  • All girls want to be attractive, but it's HOW you look at her. If you're sitting there glaring at some girls boobs, or looking at her boobs instead of her face when she talks - that's really annoying. You can admire a female without being a perv.

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  • personally I don't care... its almost like a compliment without words. if a girl cares that much she shouldnt be wearing a shirt that makes you want to look. I would also venture to say that most girls act like they care when they really don't just because there girls.

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  • girls, have a tendancy of being b*tches. that's life. personally, I figure if your gonna show it, that's the kind of attention your looking for right?

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  • for us it is some kind of disrespect

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    • Well can you stay one place so we can get a good look. most guys only aproaches a girls and stear at their boobs because he can't see it form where he at, so he approaches her and find something dum to say while he is only concern about her boobs the words goes through one and come out through the next.

What Guys Said 5

  • They get mad because apparently, to you, they are good looking enough to be stared at, but you still won't approach them and introduce yourself.

    They want to attract a mate, not be eye-candy for guys who won't make a move.

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    • I make the move if I am interested.

    • Well it's assumed that if you look, you're interested. That's what's upsetting to them. I'm sure the ones you make a move on are rarely upset.

    • Some times even though if girls look at girls breast it not because they are interested, it most because they say them that sh** is saggy, or look bad. Not all breast are attractive to guys. For example I like girs with small natural breast, my friend like girls with large breats so he can breast f*** them. in genearl depends on the guy. Like I went to a strip club I was wondering how come this girl b is so firm and every girl I know is saggy, we do take notice of these things.

  • The girls I've talked to say they've never actually gotten MAD at a guy for looking at the headlights. I mean I get blinded by the high beams sometimes no doubt, but like a good driver, I'll aim my gaze at the side of the road until the luminosity draws down.

    Society -- specifically advertising -- has used sexuality to sell us stuff. Watch the movie (free on You Tube) called Century of the Self. It may open up your mind to the media manipulation we're all dancing to. There are societies where push-up bras and booby glitter don't exist. In the vacuum of limited consumerism when the ta-ta's are not used to push products, the faculties of observance shift to interpersonal dynamics rather than 30 second sound bites of hypnotized fantasies. The girls in our western world are products of our culture and not to blame. Girls today wear revealing attire because everyone else does. If we lived 100 years ago, we'd be wearing long-cut bathing suits and fedoras while tersely criticizing the exposed ankles of a lady harlot preening the newest fashion. Who knows, maybe in 100 more years we'll have port holes to our privates where we detail and critique the shape and size of our genitalia. The same ridiculous analogy could have been posited by the folks from a millennium ago who would have thought mid-rift baring was a sin not even reserved for hookers of the day.

    We all steal a glance at tits. Even when not looking at them at all, they're still in our periphery and as obvious as the color of your hair. If a woman is uncomfortable with the endowment mother nature provided her, then various flattening and covering opportunities exists to dumb down the visual appeal to her liking. When she pulls that tight sweater over her head and admires her figure in the full length mirror of her bedroom, she is subconsciously aware of the focal points she is advertising and should expect cursory and silent complimentary acknowledgment of her wares. Our society has deadpanned required and simultaneously chastened the observance of these mammary glands which leads to denial, guilt, frustration and empowerment in all flavors and colors.

    Why do girls get angry when you look at their breasts? She gets mad because guys are brainwashed by the media to associate breasts with sexual desire and she'd rather have her words printed on her shirt than the sexual innuendo they represent.

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  • Girls don't get mad when you look at their breasts, if it was you they had in mind when choosing that tank top or if it is that marvelous new successful guy who looks.

    Girls get mad when "the wrong one" looks at their breasts. That may be me or you or both of us.

    Girls get miserable when the intended one doesn't look at their breasts.

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  • dude. I am so with you on this. I try not to be rude and stare.but let's just face it.(them).Boobies are Magical! they can freeze time and space.they make the whole world turn into like keanu f***ing matrix reeves slow motion.they can be any shape of size.thats does not matter.what is important is how to keep my eyes off the prize.this is some serious JFK meets harry potter black magic bro.someone call CBS.katie kouric probably has nice boo.PLEASE GOD HELP US! -j

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  • I'd just like to say I completely agree. Girls shouldn't wear such god damned revealing clothes and then think it's alright to get MAD at guys for looking. It's absolutely ludicrous. They know damn well they're trying to look "hot" or "sexy" and they're going to attract some split-second attention from any guys, so they shouldn't get mad at everyone but the Orlando Bloom looking guys. It's like."Oh, only YOU can look at my boobs, everyone else, even though you're near here, you aren't allowed to look", as the girl walks around topless.

    Don't bring attention to yourself and get mad at someone for noticing, in any situation, for any person, man or woman.

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