Lol, people always have a problem with what fat people wear it seems. People are like:
"No leggings! Nobody wants to see your cellulite!"
"Cover your arms, nobody wants to see your flab"
"No crop tops! You're stomach it too big!"
I'm just wondering what they are supposed to wear lmao. What looks nice on bigger people? More than just sweat pants and a t shirt. 😛
Most Helpful Guy
Whatever the hell they like.
People are complex. They say things that don't perfectly resemble their actual beliefs. Some people will honk their horn and yell as they're cut off in traffic, then two days later will themselves cut off somebody. Or they'll get onto somebody for saying something mean, then will themselves say something mean to somebody else.
What I'm trying to say is that people aren't as committed to the words they say as they sound like they are. A person who says the hurtful things you listed to an obese man/woman may not actually be bothered by obesity. It just comes out of their mouth. And they may actually do the very things they're accusing others of doing.
Advice for obese people: when people say that you shouldn't wear such-and-such clothing, just say something like, "Thanks for your opinion, but I think I'll wear what I want." Odds are that person will back off, because what they said was just an off-the-cuff remark that didn't have any conviction behind it.4
Most Helpful Girl
Wrap tops and dresses look good provided u also have an ample cleavage. Vertical lines are slimming... I know they say black is too but I find it isn't on people over a certain weight... like I think my friend is about 20 stone and she looks better in colourful patterned things than black... I guess because they distract the eyes better.
One other thing I notice is my friend always takes the time to do her make up nicely and paint her nails which I think helps a lot.
Guessing the key is distraction. Also, sometimes loose fitting clothes can actually make you look bigger than you really are so if u have a waste then cinch it in with a belt and if u have good boobs then get them on display.