My girlfriend wants to get facial piercings, she's only allowed to get her nose pierced but I think she wants her lip pierced and she wants her bellybutton pierced and maybe some other stuff.
She's going to get her nose pierced in the summer and is super super happy and excited and I've tried to be happy for her and stuff but I can't, I hate piercings so much and I think I'll find her less attractive. I want to tell her this but I don't know how to say it without it sounding like I'm telling her not to get the piercings. She is also wanting to dye her hair purple (ombre purple whatever that means) and I think I'll much much prefer her natural brown which is my favourite hair colour.
I just have no idea what to do. I don't want her to get the piercings because I'll find her less attractive but I also want her to do what she wants so I'm so confused :(
Most Helpful Girl
You sound like a nice person - it's sweet you think about her feelings as well as your own. I say you can let her know in a gentle way how you feel about piercings, but in the end you just might have to get used to it. I'm sure it'll be fine in the end.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Send her a message with this
Tell her please don't change. You're so beautiful the way you are. Maybe she'll have second thoughts1