I'm a tomboy and love playing (tackle) football (none of that two hand touch crap), hunting, mudding, and just hanging out with the guys. I hate wearing dresses or skirts on a normal basis and refuse to wear make-up but when I clean up I go all out. The thing is I kinda fell for my best friend and I think he's seen me acting like a guy too much and not enough of me acting like a girl. He's seen me in a dress or skirt a total of four times and is always shocked. Is this a problem? What can I do to show him I'm not just one of the guys?
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First off what your doing isn't " acting like a guy" it's acting like YOU. Harmful stereotypes of "masculine" and "feminine" are FAKE . What is called masculine and feminine are traits ANYONE could have ANYONE. NEVER EVER EVER fall for that garbage of "women do this and men do that" it' s LIE and had ruined peoples lives for years. If I knew a girl like you that was doing all kind of stuff, being active being using her brain and engaging in all sorts of independent actions I would be proud of her. If I saw her in a dress acting like a girly girl I would be sad and upset at the rape of her personality by a degenerate society. Never give in to those disgusting stereotypes their wrong and they hurt people. Here's a good link www.feministing.com ask the women their what they think, do some reading also, I think you will find it very enlightening.
Girly girls contribute very little to society they likely cost millions in lost productivity. My sister has had a lot of trouble with them on the job because they refuse to do their work instead seeking out men to do things for them that they are being paid to do themselves. These women harass men who are feminist and none conforming as well and they fight against equality for women. Why would you ever want to act like them?0