It's more of a combination; If I wear red lipstick, tight clothes and heels then yes that is for a sexual vibe as I am conforming.
But me going bra-less with a crop top and wrap skirt with a slit down the front is just being comfortable in my own skin. I have no problem with people seeing my nipples or anything like that. Its natural.
I love being a sexual being - I just hate the judgmental looks mainly from WOMEN. And cat-callers who are doing it for ego instead of truly appreciating the feminine divine.
I feel like I'm being judged for dressing too slutty or something, which sucks because I feel beautiful before I leave the house and as soon as someone looks at me I shrivel up a bit. It kinda just makes me wanna hide or wrap a blanket around myself for the rest of the day.
I choose to respect myself enough to dress modestly. If someone is going to like me, I would rather them like me for who I am not because they are attracted to my anatomy. Classy is always better than trashy. 💁🏻