What am I supposed to wear?

My boyfriend who I have been with for awhile now does not like it when I wear shorts or mini skirts. I also wear pantyhose with them because I hate my pale legs. It gets hot in the summer and I hate wearing pants if I don't have to. He tells me people ask him if Im a hooker! What on earth am I supposed to wear then? Are there any good looking and cool clothes I can wear and not be mistaken as a hooker but also be comfortable in hot weather?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Thing is, its not about the shorts themselves, its how you present yourself in them... if you keep the length respectable and dont show midriff+shoulders it looks VERY classy and chic. (Show him this example if you want)
    fashiongum.com/.../...ummer-Outfits-For-Work-3.jpg

    Some other options are
    Summer dresses
    www.pontochique.com/.../...o-reveillon-2015-15.jpg
    Shirt dresses
    cdn-media.prettylittlething.com/.../...-33main.jpg

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    • Thats just it I normally wear a t-shirt (nothing with logos or anything like that) or a nice shirt with shorts or a skirt. I almost feel like shorts and skirts of all lengths need to go? I will show him these those.

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    • That sounds quite sad tbh, he should know better. It's all down to how people are raised, if people are not brought up to present themselves well, or they don't learn it themsleves at some point, then they think everyone who does is just uppity and putting on a show.

    • It is, these are people who are older than me as well as younger or in the same age group and I dont know what to think. I had a similar conversation with the girl who does my eyebrows (she is always dressed nice and likes to wear heels and she was referred to as a hooker because it was hot out and she was wearing a dress and heels. I made the smartass comment that its people who are dressed like bums who claim someone who looks nice is a hooker apparently its true. It is sad. I mean Im not a celebrity or fashion model but I always take pride in how I look, makeup, hair and clothing wise. didn't know it was grounds for others calling me a hooker 😞

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just wear a slightly longer skirt or a maxi skirt or shorts that don't live in the folds of your vag, as so many girls like to do... or... don't let someone else tell you what to wear.

    Long dresses are wonderful in the summer, as are long skirts... as are baggy harem type trousers. Very cool and comfortable.

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    • Yeah I dont do the daisy dukes lol I am not that comfortable to wear that in public. I think maxi skirts are a good idea though.

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    • Thanks for the MHO :)

    • No problem. Thanks for answering.

What Guys Said 1

  • It's kind of embarrassing to for people to ask him that. No man want they woman to be referred to as a hooker. Y'all can look at clothes online together to agree on cloths together.

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What Girls Said 9

  • Something that isn't so tight or just wear one tight item of clothing don't expose too much cleavage make sure your butt doen't hang out of your shorts if they ride up. You can't wear very thin fabric either. In my opinion though it is far too easy for a woman to be labeled a slut. what sort of thing do you normally wear?
    Maybe stuff like this :
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    • I hardly ever show cleavage, my shorts and skirts are from the knee to maybe two inches past my butt. I dont wear shorts that could pass for underwear lol.
      It seems so. I feel like no matter how I wear my clothes Ill be labelled.

    • Well then your boyfriend is controlling I'm sorry but I have to say it. The decision of what you wear is no one else's but your own. There are many things that you can compromise on and change in a relationship but dress style shouldn't be one of them.

  • Well unless your going out in see through clothing or a dress or skirt that barel covers you bum then tell him mind his own buisness and wear what you want to wear.

    Seriously if my boyfriend was that possessive he would be getting his face slapped everytime he said anything nasty about how i look x

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  • wear something less short and forget these pantyhose

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  • He's jealous that people are looking at you, find something classy but sexy at the same time and tell him. If he still say you look like a 'hooker' then tell him he's overreacting.

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  • What if you wore shorts and leggings? I see that done all the time.

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    • I dont like leggings. I usually wear pantyhose or black tights.

  • Sundresses.

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  • I think a lot depends on the length of the shorts or skirts. If your ass cheeks are hanging out or close to it or it appears as if you just have underwear on when actually having shorts on that's way too short. Follow the school rules with the shorts and skirts and have them be down to your fingertips when you have your arms down by your side and he shouldn't have an issue.

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  • Didn't he know how you dressed before he got with you? It's probably part what attracted him to you.. so yea he can shhh lol.
    Anyway, maxi dresses are nice in summer. They do keep you cool. The wind blows in them and circulates all round your body and feels nice.

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    • He did lol. I can understand why he would be upset if strangers or neighbors say things like that because he knows Im not but it can't feel good to hear ignorant comments from people who are closed minded and not fashionable lol. Thats how I see it.

    • People saying that to him are extremely rude too. Who asks a guy if his girlfriend is a hooker... Rude.

    • I know. I told him I want names of people who are calling me a hooker because Ill sue them for slander. I dont play middle school games especially with adults way older than me.

  • Honestly your boyfriend sounds like a ass. If a guy you're with controls what you can and can't wear he's most likely an abusive type. someone I know has dealt with a guy who would make her wear matching socks and he controlled what she could wear and he ended up being pretty abusive to her.

    Your boyfriend shouldn't be telling you that you dress like a hooker or anything. Maybe he's jealous that you wear such clothes because other guys can see you like that too. I don't know

    seriously tho wear what you want. If it's hot wear your shorts and skirts. If he has an issue with the way you dress he's not worth your time honey.

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