2013, i was really fat, today, i am down 140 pounds. im still continuing to lose weight. as of right now, im 13 pounds away from being a good weight for my height which is 6 feet. i have a military haircut, dress good, and no glasses. im not a 10 out of 10 and i want to improve. any advice for me? reason i ask the question is cause i dont get many matches on tinder and the matches i do get are average girls expect a couple that are stunning. i guess most of me asking this question is cause i think im not that good looking based on my tinder profile, yet my close friend gets a lot of matches. so, hit me up with some thoughts. thanks yo. legit question
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I know this is the last thing you want to hear, but confidence is the key. It feels like false advice you can't achieve, but if you don't feel like it, you can fake it. After a while you start to believe it lol. It is so essential!
If you want to improve purely physically, I would say don't only dress good, but dress for your body shape, asks advice from platonic girl friends (if you don't have one just guy friends that seem confident). Keep working out, if it makes you feel great, it will show through the way you act. Have a good posture. Try things out, like a new haircut, a beard/stubble.
If you want more matches on tinder, just maybe put more pictures, not shirtless or whatever, but pictures where you think you look good. But dating apps are really superficial, you shouldn't base your looks based on that.3