yea I know it s gonna be first world problems but still xD
OK so I have this group of friends in my new univ. cool people...
not to sound arrogant though but I have a lot of friends, and a lot that I consider closer.
so this group isn t taking summer like I am and they always wanna do plans with me. it s like I am their main choice now and they don t go unless we re all together.
it s irritating me a lot in the end. they start planning like a week or 2 before what they wanna do.
and if I go out with them on Tuesday then they wanna do smthng on Thursday and then Friday.
after they tell me they wanna do smthng on Sunday. and it s always like that.
and they are really insistent it s annoying and they get upset too.
I mean how can I make them understand in a nice way that I have other plans and friends too.
it s like I am in a relationship with them I swear xD
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You don't have to attend every single one of those events or follow up every invitation. Those calendars can get full if it's a very big group of friends. It'll also tend to help them get excited when you do attend.
It's like in a relationship -- you don't necessarily want to do *everything* 24/7 with your boyfriend. It helps to balance it out and have your own plans every now and then.1