I've always been into a sophisticated, feminine, classic look, but I've recently been getting worried that it may be turning off guys. I wear knee length modest dresses with a simple pair of heels pretty much everyday. I attached a few pictures for examples of what my everyday outfits are like. I chose Kate Middleton because my fashion sense is frequently compared to hers by others.
What do guys think when they see my outfits? Do they think it's too conservative or do they admire the modest look? Is it too uptight for a 20 year old college student? Please be as honest as possible! Thank you!
Kate Middleton? Yes. Boner killer. If you dress like Kate Middleton, that shows men that you care more about looking "classy for women" rather than looking "sexy for men." In other words, the opinion of other women > the sexual opinion of men. That's the "best" case, the alternative is narcissism.
Why would a guy want to be with a girl who places such little importance and value on what men are sexually interested in?
If that's how easily a man's sexual interests can get knocked down in importance or priority, it's not going to get any better with kids or other things in life.
No guy wants to be in that situation for the long-run.
I've known some very beautiful girls that were total boner killers. I could literally feel my testosterone levels dropping just from looking at her. Going on through life with someone like that? Jeez, just cut my balls off right now and slap a pair of tits on me and make me start breast feeding a baby.
Do you do it because you want to or because you think guys (or girls) will give you attention, wether it be negative or positive? I like a girl who wants to look good, but I'd say I like "normal" most of the time.
I don't think there is anything wrong with dressing like that. But dress like that if that is what you like. Don't worry about what other people think. The right guy will date you for you and not only due to what you wear.
Personally I admire you for trying to dress so modestly at our age. I don't think there's anything wrong with dressing this way every once in a while or maybe for a special occasion but everyday seems a bit much. It does kind of give off that stuck up poshy vibe but you shouldn't change the way you dress just to attract attention to yourself. Especially from men. If you feel good dressing this way that's all that should matter.
Lots of guys like that classy, feminine look, but you should still vary your style, switch it up a little! Be bold and wear something that is a little shorter/tighter every once in a while! Don't wear anything you're super uncomfortable with, because that will show, but try to get out of your comfort box a little, you're 20! Take advantage of the best years of your life, you'll never be physically prettier than you are now 😊❤️