I've always been into a sophisticated, feminine, classic look, but I've recently been getting worried that it may be turning off guys. I wear knee length modest dresses with a simple pair of heels pretty much everyday. I attached a few pictures for examples of what my everyday outfits are like. I chose Kate Middleton because my fashion sense is frequently compared to hers by others.
What do guys think when they see my outfits? Do they think it's too conservative or do they admire the modest look? Is it too uptight for a 20 year old college student? Please be as honest as possible! Thank you!
Kate Middleton? Yes. Boner killer. If you dress like Kate Middleton, that shows men that you care more about looking "classy for women" rather than looking "sexy for men." In other words, the opinion of other women > the sexual opinion of men. That's the "best" case, the alternative is narcissism.
Why would a guy want to be with a girl who places such little importance and value on what men are sexually interested in?
If that's how easily a man's sexual interests can get knocked down in importance or priority, it's not going to get any better with kids or other things in life.
No guy wants to be in that situation for the long-run.
I've known some very beautiful girls that were total boner killers. I could literally feel my testosterone levels dropping just from looking at her. Going on through life with someone like that? Jeez, just cut my balls off right now and slap a pair of tits on me and make me start breast feeding a baby.
Do you do it because you want to or because you think guys (or girls) will give you attention, wether it be negative or positive? I like a girl who wants to look good, but I'd say I like "normal" most of the time.
Personally I admire you for trying to dress so modestly at our age. I don't think there's anything wrong with dressing this way every once in a while or maybe for a special occasion but everyday seems a bit much. It does kind of give off that stuck up poshy vibe but you shouldn't change the way you dress just to attract attention to yourself. Especially from men. If you feel good dressing this way that's all that should matter.
Lots of guys like that classy, feminine look, but you should still vary your style, switch it up a little! Be bold and wear something that is a little shorter/tighter every once in a while! Don't wear anything you're super uncomfortable with, because that will show, but try to get out of your comfort box a little, you're 20! Take advantage of the best years of your life, you'll never be physically prettier than you are now 😊❤️
I don't think there is anything wrong with dressing like that. But dress like that if that is what you like. Don't worry about what other people think. The right guy will date you for you and not only due to what you wear.
I absolutely love it, the look is very beautiful, it's flowing and feminine, so much better than all these folks who want to slap on yoga pants every day and call it good. It's a lovely, classy look.
something fit for royalty but unattractive on a normal girl, in my opinion. it gives off an air of conservative stuffiness which is gr8 if that's what you're going for.
It's a very classy, tasteful, and attractive look. But surely sometimes you dress more casually and sport as well. It's good to mix it up, depending on the occasion.
It would not turn me off, but it might make me think you're less open to being approached.
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Why are you picking what Kate wears? She can pull it off because she's a future queen. A 20 year old just looks ridiculous and like she's playing dress up.
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For the most part, guys don't care. But extreme cases can make even a casual guy turn away and frown.
@anonman32 fashion depend on your age really. that's a bit complicated to explain. Like for exemple you wear only fashion accesories and that's great. When your young you wear fashion clothes, etc... all. Yes, your right everybody should wear what they like the most but in my country everyone judge you, etc... So that's hard to not follow it and to only wear what you like especially if it's really "old fashion" stuff.
@anonman32 In cote d'azur if you avoid the big tourist area that's good. A bit expensive because it's summer of course but price is reasonable. Unlike like Monaco where it's always expensive.
@anonman32 No, in the north no. Plus if you go in village it's a lot less expensive. People want to go in the south in general so the north is really not expensive at all.
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