So I'm 13 (ik my account says I'm 15 but I assure u I'm 13) and crop tops help me with self esteem issues. I've had less body issues since I started wearing crop tops. Usually if I wear high waisted shorts with a crop top so my stomach barely shows my school has no problem with it. I obviously don't wear crop tops for formal occasions like church and such. The only thing I hate about it is that it gives people the interpretation that I'm a slut. But whatever. I mean it's legal.
3mo Lol my mom is pretty cool she says "wear what you want as long as it doesn't reveal your private parts I'm ok with it." She thinks I look good in what I wear. (And obviously it's not just crop tops)
This reminds of the South Park episode with James Cameron. He has to raise the bar of society because standards are too low and trashy. I wonder how life will be in 10 years. Will being pregnant in middle school be the new thing instead of getting pregnant in high school? Lmao
Im sorry but where is your mother in all this? what is her opinion? I wasn't allowed to wear crop tops when I was your age at (13). Im still not allowed :-p hahaha my mom has a fit if I wear a tank top!
If wearing clothes is the only way to raise up your self esteem, then I suggest you find a better way to make people like you.
I'm not exactly sure what you mean by crop tops helping you become more confident with your body. If you mean you like them because they look good on you and complement your body then, to answer your question, of course! I don't see why a 13-year-old shouldn't be allowed to wear a crop top. No, it's not slutty, unless you pair it with shorts that reveal half your booty. You can definitely wear a crop top and still look modest and classy! For example, with a gorgeous, long flowing skirt, or high waisted shorts like you mentioned.
Your mum is awesome by the way. Mine used to tell me the same thing, and I also wore crop tops at your age. She also told me that I should wear whatever I want while I still have a youthful body (obviously she wouldn't want me going out wearing almost nothing haha, but you know what I mean), because as you get older, you might not be able to pull off a crop top or skinny jeans so well. As long as your school's dress code allows it then yes, go for it! :)
I've bee wearing crop tops since I was seven so yes I don't care what society has to say I wear what I want and if u have a problem look the other direction. I've never had self esteem issues or body image issues I've always been beautiful. You just gotta feel the same. Fuck other peoples opinions because mine is the only one that matters. Have a nice day!
If I was a mother I wouldn't advice my 13 year old daughter to wear a crop top. I'd recommend her to wear a different piece of clothing -which can be also flattering- instead. But if your mother says it's okay, who am I to disagree?
You can where whatever you want as long as it's legal.