So my SO told me that he thinks it's slutty when girls wear booty shorts or dresses/tops with a really low cut back he thinks those women have no self respect and says that they don't even look attractive to him I honestly agree what happened to modesty..
3mo Girls who dress totally revealing obviously do it to attract guys attention and to feel good about themselves..
You can group all women in one basket. People dress provocative for different reasons. Some women do it because of low self esteem. They need constant attention from others in order to feel good about themselves and to seek male attention. Others do it, because that is their clothing style, they love their body and showing it off (they have high self esteem). It can really go both ways here... Slutty clothing doesn't equal slut. I've seen some of the biggest sluts that were girls who I would never think (They dressed conservatively).
Not necessarily. I don't think that men should have conditional respect for a woman based on what she wears. Nor do I think that women should agree with the silly idea that their worth and how much respect they deserve is based on how they dress. I still respect guys in skimpy clothes lol I don't lose respect until poor character is displayed.
Plus for some girls, like myself, EVERY pair of shorts looks like booty shorts!!! 😌 There's no hiding this booty!!
I won't have this body forever. As long as the important parts are covered, I see no issue with dressing how I want. Although I would never dress slutty and then complain about being stared at or hit on. If you dress that way, you sort of expect that to happen.
I am extremely promiscuous but you'd never know it by the way I dress most of the time. However there are times when I will go out to the bars barely covered and asking to be used like a Slut. Normally I'm dressed in a business suit or a dress suited to an office profession even though I'm down to fuck in a moment's notice.
I think those things look trashy and common, but I don't think it says THAT much about the girl. Yes, it may say she wants attention, but you can chalk that down to insecurity more. Other things that type of dress could reflect are socioeconomic and class factors, aka not being raised with a knowledge of what is "good dress." Eg: you're more likely to see new-money or newly-arrived girls dress that way (unless they're the molly-popping festival chick of the family)
I wear what I want regardless of what others think. I wear both but what do u expect when it's literally 104 degrees. And the way a girl dresses does not define who she is. Idgaf about modesty. It's the one thing I'll never have to worry about. I look attractive when I wear them. So yeah. I'll wear it as long as it's designer brand.
Women should be able to dress however they want. I will say that the way you dress will obviously bring a lot of judgement, so women need to know that how they present themselves affects how people view them.
And the ones who doesn't dress like that are nuns right? Makes no sense to judge someone by the way they like to dress themselves lol