I have just moved in with my fiance.Its her house and absolutely beautiful.She obviously very proud of it and wants to keep it in tip top condition.She makes everyone take off their shoes at the door.She wear slippers or goes barefoot as do her girlfriends when they come.She has bought me(albeit very expensive)slippers, which I suppose is kind of cute, but my mates think this shoes off at the door thing is a little weird.I know that many women are like this.
We are both professionals in our 30s and known each other a long time, and yes I do want everything to work out.She wants to put the house in joint names, and we intend to pay the mortgage equally.So its a serious relationship.
What do I do about my mates.Do any of you guys have a wife or partner like this if so what do you do.
You girls, is my fiance right to do this, would you or do you have similar rules etc.And in reality is it that important?
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As soon as I saw this question, I started to laugh. Is she an Asian? lol. Because I have the same rule. I make everybody take their shoes off. That way I don't have to vacuum or mop on daily basis. If you friends don't like being barefoot in the house, buy guest slippers and put them by the front door when they come in.
I once got a little upset when these people I didn't invite came in the house with shoes still on them while everybody else had theirs off. They were my boyfriend's teammate's obnoxious friends. They invited bunch of people that we didn't know, came and drank and ate all our food, went through my stuff and made rude comments. After they left, I told my boyfriend that they were not allowed in the house anymore. And it was snowy outside and it made my floor all muddy. I was not happy. lol.2