I am quite curvy (36D-28-38) and I love wearing bodycon dresses. I don't wear the mini type. Usually either knee length or a little above. Nothing too extreme. Now my problem is once I step out the house, guys started to stare or catcall me. A few of them even dare to follow me just to flirt expecting me to give out my number. I have seen so many girls wearing something more provocative than me but nothing much seems to happen to them.
Slutty, no. But curvy girls are sexier. If you dont want that kind of attention, tell them to back off. You shouldn't be forced to wear unflattering clothes just because a few guys can't control their limbic cortexes.