If you are a Black woman of dark complexion and a great figure wearing a white or pink shiny bikini and high heels you will turn my head quickly. The Black woman with the light to medium complexion in a pink or light blue bikini and high heels will make me do a head turn. If you are a White woman with a figure and a big ass, which is a must, wearing any bright color bikini and high heels will certainly get my attention. If you looked like Jennifer Lopez in a bikini and high heel will also get my attention. i have a thing for women in bikinis and high heels.
well, for starters u have to have confidence. even "ugly" people can look good and get attention if they are confident and think they ish don't stink. dress well, stay up to day with the fashion trends, b clean, find a look that works for u and compliments u.
Watch beauty guru make up tutorials religiously to get contouring and "natural" make up down, straighten your hair or style it, and dress trendy. I would go on pinterest or tumblr for style ideas.. or even youtube.