I got a haircut three days ago and it's now right at my shoulders, and when I go out alone or with one person, I notice more guys and girls looking at me than before
I actually don't think I look any different, and I miss my longer hair but my long hair was so dead at the bottom that I had to cut it.
I was at work and a man came up to my coworker (who's younger than me btw) and pointed at me and asked if I was her little sister. saying that I look like 10 years old and his daughter who is actually 10 years old looks older than me. no one said that to me when I had longer hair
My hair feels lighter but I lost my self confidence, I heard that guys like girls with longer hair. My boyfriend said he loved my hair because it was long and shiny, and his parents like girls with long hair. I still cut my hair though and when I went to visit him he barely looked at me, but we still cuddled and everything. He said it looks good on me but I don't know he could just be trying to make me happy
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I'll confess to having a fairly strong preference for long hair (waist length is my favorite), but I've warmed up considerably to short hair over the years. Following are some styles that I like.
And, probably my favorite:
(I'd include a better picture here, but I don't know what this style is named.)
I might be in the minority, but I really don't know. I've never asked my friends what they think about women's hair length.1
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I'm so sorry that people are being so mean! You do what you want with your hair, I'm sure it looks great! Besides, shoulder length isn't even that short! It's still long!
I've had my hair all sorts of different lengths growing up. It's currently at my armpits and while I love my long hair, it's driving me crazy! Not many styles I can do with it as it's super hot out and humid so it's frizzy. But at the same time I feel if I cut it, I am limiting the styles I can do with it.
I think some people look amazing with short hair (like pixie cut short or even buzzed). People also look amazing with shoulder length hair! Ultimately, you do what you feel is best for you. Hair will grow back, and I think some guys definitely love long hair. But there are guys who are okay with whatever you do. Really, your boyfriend should love you regardless.
I highly doubt you look 10. I think that guy was just being rude! People need to stop policing people. Like how do random people even get a say in what you look like? Do they pay for your haircuts, clothes? So how do they think they get a say?