I'm not feeling awful because I asked her out and said no... I'm feeling awful because I asked her out and DIDN'T get a no. In fact, she just chose not to get back to me.
It took me a lot of courage to ask her. I was so nervous, but when the time came I was confident and I felt elated after I did it. She told me her friend might have a party on that day but that she'll let me know.
Nope. Never let me know.
And I don't see her around so it's really easy for her to just let it slide.
Apparently, after all the courage and everything, she didn't care I asked her out.
I think this is the worst feeling ever. If she had just told me no she can't because of her friend's party, I'd have been okay. But I actually thought she was serious that she'd let me know so I waited and waited for her to follow up and never did.
I just know that if I was in her shoes, I'd NEVER do something like this to a girl. I'd NEVER leave them hanging like this with no answer.
I need help and advice for how to cope with this.
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Did you suggest another day after she said no, that's the day my friend might have a party? Not saying you should have been pushy but we girls like to be impressed.
What would make you stand out to me from all the others is if you planned a day and confirmed it was free. "Oh your going to a party that day? All good, sounds like fun. Would you be free on Saturday instead for (whatever your inviting her to do)"...
By doing this, you are showing alittle bit more interest but not too much because if she couldn't do saturday because of whatever resond, then you could have suggested her call you when she is free. This way you know you made two attempts. If she says no after two attempts then you did what you could.
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