I am so confused I don't get women theses days. Its seems like I tried to be the nice and loving guy but they show no interest in me and then when I became a jerk and started treated them disrespectfully they call me an A-hole. I tried to be both and they still don't like me what am I supposed to do? They always said that nice guys don't finish last! Well I am nice guy but I do got an edge to me and if women can't see that then what is wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you, just stop changing yourself to mold what 'women' want. Every woman is different and if you are trying to please everyone it won't work. Every woman wants something different in their partner, different interests and personalities. You changing yourself just makes yourself lose what you are naturally. Be yourself and stop trying to change yourself for women. If you're a nice guy don't be a jerk just so you can get girls. It won't impress the women you already know nor would it show to the ones you're trying to get.
Be yourself, and if you have already tried being yourself maybe it just isn't around the right girl, I personally like the sweet loving guy who isn't afraid to stand up for me or to me. The proper ratio of gentleness and being stern is called for here. Don't be a doormat and don't be a jerk. Show her what you want but don't be too demanding and give her what she wants as long as it's something you are willing to give, and if it's not then let it be known.you sound like you have good intentions and that's always a strong foundation, just no more being the "A-hole"
well if you're changing your personality to "fit", you're sending mixed signals and possibly scaring people. the thing I look for in a guy is confidence in himself. I know that sounds fake and cheesy, but a guy who isn worried about being "right" isn't being real.
Ima tell you what's wrong... you're not being yourself- why would you wanna base anything, esp a relationship, off a representation of yourself (cuz all men have that asshole side to em)... And why ru trying so hard to attract chicks? I say dnt worry too much about it... you seriously need to start damn doing something in life (whatever you like doing). You're only young once- why spend it all conflicted, torn and mad about how someone else won't fckn warm up to you?