That's not very fair, but then, as you said, "the world is never fair." Not all women are shallow and coldhearted, just as not all men are sex driven pigs. I for one have fallen in love when I have never even seen the person's face (internet communications). There are nice girls out there. They are just much harder to find. They aren't (usually) the girls who go to bars or to clubs, who wear lots of make up and tight clothing - they aren't the ones you will notice first. Perhaps you have been looking in the wrong places. Also, in order to find a woman who does not care about appearances or money, you may have to lower your standards yourself - the street goes both ways.
Good luck - hope you find that special some one that makes you change your mind about everything you once believed - it's amazing when you do.
wow some chick has deffo done a number on you hun!
but I disagree with you on 1 thing not every woman goes for looks and money in a man! and I'm one of them
when I look for a partner I don't look at his bank balance I look at his personality that is what attracts me to any man yes there has to be some attraction but it's not the main thing for me and you can either believe that are not but I'm telling the truth.
and example you go out to a bar and meet 2 woman the first is drop dead georgus has the perfect body has the money the bling etc etc but has no personality there is no spark apart form her looks.
then there is woman number 2 she is average looking average body hasn't got all the money are the bling but has a personality that gives you that spark also who do you choose to go for.
it's not just men who think like you women do also but at the same time who are you to say that woman deserve to feel the same saddness as you not every woman is as shallow as the one that has done that number on you.
Listen I don't know what bitch has hurt you but not all girls are like that. I can tell someone broke your heart but you need to get over it, and look for the right girl. Any guys reading this answer do NOT listen to his stupid advice because what you give your gonna get. If you 'play girls' there going to play you right back.