Why don't guys fall for shy girls?
How come they usually are attracted to the really outgoing, popular ones?
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Generally they go for the outgoing girls because they feel like they know them better, but I will go for a shy girl, you just have to open up a little bit and show them what you are like, in general though nice guys will go for shy girls, they just may be too shy to ask you out.
What Guys Said 2
They go after the ones who look like fun, and who look like they will still have a life and not be too clingy.
90% of the guys in your class are probably just as shy as you. Try dating one of them.
What Girls Said 1
From how I see it, and from what all my brothers and their friends tell me..
Guys like fun girls, that don't get "attached" quickly , and usually girls that are up in front of the class laughing with friends and things are the girls that are more independent, the dependent ones are usually the shy ones. Because they open up to you and then they think you guys are perfect for each other and it probably annoys guys. Don't get me wrong.. guys like ALL types of girls, but outgoing girls are ALOTTTT more approachable. I have always been really outgoing and I'm hyper and I'm always with friends and things.. guys always say how hot they think I am and they always give me hugs and stuff. But I run into a problem the seconds guys that I'm going out with realize that I hug all these guys and they all think the same of me. Sometimes, that happens. it is never really on purpose.. but it's just like friends of mine anymore. They hug me and I think its normal.. when some people are too shy to hug their own boyfriends! Also, shy girls are sometimes way too much of a chase.. who wants to chase around a girl everywhere and never get her because she it too shy. Don't get me wrong though.. I get shy sometimes. like when I'm with a guy that I REALLY like.. but they say they thinks its cute. lol. Good Luckk!
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