You know what, I don't really think it's a big deal. I get extensions put into my hair all the time and most of the time guys don't even know because it looks so real since I buy hair that matches my natural color to a T and leave a portion of my real hair out. If you like your weave and rock it then it really shouldn't matter what a guy thinks. I get compliments on my hair all the time at my school where there are mostly hispanic and white kids lol and it's because I'm proud of it and take really good care of my hair...even if technically it's not "mine." I have no problem letting anyone know that I wear extensions.
No one has ever told me I wasn't good enough because I got weaves, if anything the guys in my life have been interested in learning about it and the different styles. I once brought my friend to a hair store with me and he was like amazed at all the different types.
The one thing that just can't happen is a guy can't run his fingers through my scalp because he will get stuck but I think you already know that lol. They can play with my hair just as long as they aren't all up in my scalp...and I let guys know it.
My natural hair is fine length wise, but it's thin so I prefer to weave it because I like the fullness...plus it saves me time in the morning instead of having to sit and style my hair only to have it a mess by the end of the day...weave is awesome don't let anyone tell you different. Some of the most beautiful women in Hollywood wear weaves =]].
I think the only problem I have with weave is that white guys always wanna run their hands through your hair whilst making out, IN fact MOST guys do, but the majority of the white guys are terrified if I don't let them explore my head in the beginning. haha It may seem like an invasion of privacy, but it's something we can joke about later. A lot of guys have seen me with and without my weave, and my current boyfriend loves me without it. "I like the texture of your hair" haha and Of course I thought he was weird because all I wanted to do is change the texture. When it comes to guys I think the LAST thing they worry about is fake hair, just as long as you look good. Most men prefer us all natural, no make up, not weave, haah no clothes. And as far as the take out" extensions, the only problem I have with those is that I lose them in bed with him. He's a big hair puller haha so afterwards, my hair is all messy and my tracks are tangled in the sheets somewhere. Sometimes I don't find them by the end of the night( which is BAD because hair is too expensive to lose), so if you do have the clip ins, DO be real with the guy so he knows that if he's a tugger, you will have a little less/ lot less hair after your love marathon. But like a said, all natural, no make up, not weave, haah no clothes. and the small percent of guys who don't like us natural are probably gay. I wish you the best of luck!
Guys don't know what's real or what isn't most of the time. They usually state natural but honestly many haven't seen many girls who are completely natural (and when they do they decide that there are certain "natural" things that they rather not exist. Example leg hair...) Anyway, I like wearing weave sometimes because it always you to change your appearance without causing a lot of damage to your real hair. My guy is all about liking the natural as possible look but when I added extensions he loved playing with them and was actually sadden a bit when I took them out.
So I say don't worry about what a guy think he wants. Usually they don't even know what they really want because us girls have so many ways to make ourselves look natural without being truly natural and they are usually left confused in the end.
My aunt taught me how to spot them because I'm the type of guy that doesn't care if ur hair is short or long as long as its real I like it but I've seen sum I wouldn't mind like the kind girls get to make their hair fuller I think they call it lol but sum I don't mind and others I hate but I prefer a girl to be extremely natural no matter what
Seeing as how I'm not sure what weave is, I can safely say I don't really care.
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What if their hair was sparse without extensions? I don't mean like bald, but say you could see the scalp.. would that creep you out, and then you'd wish she had them in? I'm wondering because thinning hair runs in my family, so mine is going to start thinning in my late 30's and well.. *self conscious already* XD
As long as it looks good and tasteful. But a lot of guys would prefer if you had naturally long hair that they can run their hands through. But whatever, if you can't achieve it weave it! It really doesn't make THAT much of a difference. What guy is gonna be like "Oh I really liked her and thought she was beautiful until I realised she had tracks. On to the next one!"
Most don't mind and the ones that do are just a**holes...beyonce and most of the celebrities they see and think are so hot on tv have extensions and weaves and stuff so I would say no they don't mind as long as it doesn't look bad
In general, if it's natural, I prefer it (strongly) to an artificial alternative.
Hair, boobs, tan, teeth, you name it.
i don't really care but I prefer it natural.
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