First of all, I know I am an attractive, fun, an outgoing person, and that my boyfriend loves me however there is one thing I find it annoying, and happen to feel that I am not good enough for him when there is another attractive woman walk by us, or some posters of supermodels in bikini, or when the scene on the shows happens to be a woman in nude or makes hot moves, I notice his eyes locked on those, and I knew he likes what he sees. Why I find it annoying? Because I am not in a full curved body but slim with some good parts on me and I am not even measured up to those perfect bod women.
So, is it just an eye candy or he wishes that I look like one of those?
And what's funny was when I was dating some guys in the past, they usual shared their thoughts about women and it never bothered me til with this current boyfriend I am with, and his opinion counts and it hurts sometimes. Not that he says out of respect but friendly comment like "she looks nice" or "I like how she dances, can you do that?" Or "wow, she looks hot in those lingerie" (on the show). Something like that.
I would be appreciated to hear any feedback.
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its human nature to be attracted to multiple people. I mean honestly you have never ever since you have been with your boyfriend seen another guy that you find attractive? maybe you didn't announce it like he does but you have found other people hott. You don't want to get with that person or you don't wish your man looked like that person but you found them attractive.
it is also human nature to get a little jealous when your significant other looks in another direction. you shouldnt take it personally or feel bad when he looks. Just know that he is with you and he is happy. if he wanted the other person, model, or whatever bad enough he would leave you to go get them. I look at other women all the time but I still find my wife the most beautiful woman on earth. not just because of looks, I mean there are prettier women out there than her, but because of her personality and love for me. So get over it, he is going to look. so will you but you have something with him that no other woman can give him. And that is what makes all the difference. You aren't the prettiest woman on earth, but I'm sure you are beautiful. as long as you have confidence in that you will stay beautiful to him. the biggest turn off in the world for both male and female in insecurity. hope I shed some light for you. be cool.0