What do guys like and not like in girls? Like, clothes, makeup, personality, etc. Is there anything that is a major turn on, or a major turn off?
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This whole question is very complex in it's nature - every man is different, and so are their opinions about how girls should be/look. But if you ask me, personally, I would say it doesn't really matter all that much. I want a girl that has got some sort of confidence, and if that confidence is being obtained by wearing whatever she wants to wear, so be it. But, at the same time I wouldn't want to turn down on an girl just because she doesn't have confidence, instead, I would rather feel compelled to encourage her in different ways to improve her confidence.
As long as she's dressed "normal" (and when I mean normal, I mean everything except for fashion similiar to like Lady Gaga that makes the girl stick out amongst everyone else) and she's happy with it, I don't mind it. I think it cannot be a bad thing, it can only be good, in my opinion.
When it comes to a girls personality, I mostly consider this more important rather than looks (through personal experiences, I find this being most close to the truth, really, at least for my part). Girls personalities are usually very different between them, but as long as she's not cocky or self-centered and is being an overall serious person about herself, I would say anything goes. (I mean, from what've read so far on what girls want from men, it's almost basicly the same expectations.)
Some girls are shy, some girls are very social, some girls are inbetween, some girls are funny and some are really outgoing etc. This varies alot, and I feel different to girls I meet depending on what information I get from them. If she's shy, I feel almost compelled to get her to know more. Why? Well, if she's becomes shy when she's sees me or are just being with me. It can be a passive sign of showing interest in me, which I might found out sooner or later. And if she really likes me, afterall, then it's really endearing in a way, and I really like that.
As for the rest of the "types" of personalities, well, it's different. I can't explain everyone of them, since I havn't been with all of the types that exists, yet, it's hard to tell. I guess every girl is different, and so are the reactions you get. But if I would to say in general, when it comes to personality amongst girls. As long as she's showing interest in me, and she's not a player (that is perhaps the biggest turn off to me, if any). I think it'll be just fine and dandy for my part, but I cannot control her feelings towards me, and I cannot force anyone to like me for who I am.
But, I can AT LEAST expect the decency of having the same respect in return, to me, if I give it to them. It's all about common sense, and some girls (and guys) just don't get it, I guess.
Just be yourself - if you are yourself (and not someone else), you can beginning of developing an personality that is personally vowen towards you, you, as a person. People will recognize for whoever you are, and what you represent amongst everyone else.
I hope this helps, and don't worry gals.1