A girl who wears skimpy clothes?

do you really like it when your girlfriend runs around in a a mini-skirt and high heels?

i always thought only superficial jerks like that but somehow my slutty dressed friend has a "quite OK" boyfriend.

so..is it possible for a decent guy to like (REALLY like) a girl who wears skimpy clothes?


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  • It varies from guy to guy, with some it might only make them jealous. And who knows? Maybe that's the reaction she was trying to get from him. Personally I don't care how my girl dresses as long as I'm the only man in her life. She should dress however she is most comfortable. If skimpy clothes and flaunting the goods to everyone is comfortable to her, so be it. I surely wouldn't object. =)

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What Guys Said 28

  • Honestly, my opinion. I wouldn't like it, I mean if I was the guy I would be like, who is she trying to impress? She already has me, I think that's just rude to the guy if she is always wearing those types of things especially when he's not around. I don't mind if they wear those types of things once and awhile but if its constant than I would be kinda worried that something must be going on for her to be wearing that stuff. I won't lie, it is sexy but I don't want other guys to be looking at her the same way I do.

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  • Miniskirts and high heels aren't necessarily a really 'slutty' look. It can be flirty and cute if the girls is covered up otherwise, not wearing a lot of makeup, and the skirt isn't tight fitting. Especially an Asian girl with a simple hair style, like a pony tail, doesn't look cheap just because she is trying to make her legs look longer and her skirt is short.

    So you can't generalize about this! Clearly if the girls is generally uncovered, the skirt is tight, a complicated hair style, much makeup, etc., THAT is advertising...

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  • i think any and every guy would love it if their girlfriend did it now and then, just not all the time.

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  • When I see skimpy clothing on a girl, I either get really hot for them or get really annoyed. Most of the time I see them as attention getters. I understand 'If you've got it flaunt it' but if she was a cool chick, she wouldn't do it to begin with. Girls that wear skimpy clothes aren't relationship material. Most guys want a girlfriend - Not a whore.

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  • This is one of those issues where a man beats a boy any ol' time of the week. A boy would want to show off his hot girlfriend, while a man would know that his lady is going to dress the way she wants to dress regardless.

    I have never had this exact problem, believe it or not, because I generally pick ladies of a different caliber. I also must note that I prefer more mature women. It is usually the young girls who are still exploring their sexuality that dress provocative. If a true lady has it going on, then she doesn't need to tell anybody because we all notice.

    If a lady has a smoking hot body and walks in a room wearing a baggy shirt and sweat pants, every guy in the room is still going to have to hide the que ball in his pocket. Now if the same girl walked in the room wearing daisy dukes and a tank top, the same que balls will need to be hidden yet now we're all gonna think she's a slut. It may make for better dreams latter, though it serves no purpose.

    One of my exes even dressed down on purpose to avoid the horny men. She still got harassed, which made my life less comfortable and only made me want to bash in a few assholes heads to defend her honor. That is another story.

    Dress how you want to dress and find a man that is cool with that. Sudden changes in wardrobe suggest problems in your life, just a little food for thought. Otherwise, show off that body if it is your desire too! Believe me, we all want to see!

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  • Depends on the guy. Personally I like my girlfriend to dress well and look hot, but no so much so that every guy in the room as staring at her all night. It just makes things more difficult, cause you get sick of dealing with guys that crack onto your girlfriend all the time. Obviously some girls like to be chatted up even if they have a boyfriend, and other girls wouldn't.

    A girl can dress well and feel beautiful or sexy without going overboard. But I'm sure other guys if they had a girlfriend wearing not much wouldn't care because he knows she's going home with him. Totally depends on the guy and the trust in the relationship.

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  • I love it when my wife wears skimpy clothes I always want her to show as much as possible. She has big, natural boobs but I don't like her wearing a bra and she only buys tops / dresses that show off a lot of cleavage because I hate it when she covers up. She never wears shorts or trousers only skirts or dresses, I like her to be bare-legged as much as possible and she only wears panties when it's that time of the month. Her skirts are of course always very short, and if people get a view of her shaved p**** then that's perfect as far as I'm concerned in fact I encourage her to sit with her legs apart to make sure that her p**** can be seen.

    I recently bought her some see-thru tops and she's been wearing them (with nothing underneath of course) when we go out to bars and clubs so her big perfect boobs are on display. I've told her she should wear see-thru clothes all the time I love it when when everyone stares at her and would be happy if she could just be naked 24/7.

    My beautiful wife is Chinese and such exhibitionism doesn't come easy to her but she has slowly got used to showing more and more and does enjoy it. Of course her family doesn't know anything about this and she has to be a good girl and dress modestly when we go to China. If only her parents knew that their daughter happily shows herself off to strangers every day!

    Guys chat her up all the time, because the way she dresses they assume that she's a slut. I like her telling me all about the attention she's got when she gets home from a night out with the girls none of her friends understand why I want her dressing like that their partners want them to cover up!

    She finds it hardest showing herself off at work, she works in the accounts department of a five star London hotel and her manager is always telling her to cover up and wear longer skirts but she wears the skimpiest clothes she can get away with in the office.

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  • I prefer to overlook girls that dress immodestly, but that's just me, and I consider myself a pretty decent guy.

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    • You mean you don't wanna date them? you certainly must look. I mean guys will look whether they want to or not. its kinda cute when they're with their girlfriend and they're trying to fight it but in the end they alwaays look lol

    • I mean I ignore them. I might look, but my eyes are still my own, and I can choose to look in that direction or not.

  • It's not skimpy cloths that bother me. A girl can wear a lot of sexy stuff like leggings and tight tops or bicycle shorts or short shorts what ever else. What gets me is if she looks frilly and flouncy long mop of curly hair heels mini skirt every thing all frilly and silly looking no power not sharp or striking silly cartoonish childish girly stuff is what bothers me because it makes her look like a moron a ditz a bimbo. If a woman just want's to tease that's normal it just that women think men want a silly helpless child in a bunch of frilly crap.

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  • I would prefer my girlfriend to dress modestly, but for all the single ladies, mini-skirts and high heels are hot.

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  • Generally, a girl who dresses up in skimpy clothes is (in my opinion) either a slut, or they want to beloved, but they don't know how. In the first case, the answer is 'probably not'. In the second case, however, the answer is 'probably'.

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  • absolutely. Who wants to spend their life with someone who doesn't like sex?

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    • U can be crazy about sex but just not show it in public?

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    • I have twenty years of experience, I am very comfortable with my observations.

    • Yea but I know myslfe better than you

  • She sounds like my dream girl!

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  • Depends, but he may get jealous other guys will look at you if you do that.

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    • Lol you can have guys looking at you in jeans and sweater too...

    • Yeah, but they don't see those parts of your body that the revealing clothes do, I mean guys like the feeling of having their girl, its just the way men are. If a girl wears skimpy revealing clothes around and other guys stop and stare, in the guys(bf) mind, he may be thinking ur letting other people see you in ways only he should see you.

    • Oh ok I understand. makes sense :)

  • Of course...I just don't like her to do it when I am not there.

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  • I don't like the slut look... Nothing better then a women in sweats or workout clothes for me. I like my girlfriend to be comfortable and cute.

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  • Let me start by saying hello... Every guy is different in one way or another but for the most part we are alike... And we do like it when a girl dresses in skimpy skirts and high heels even before they are ower girl friends... And why you ask here is why because it shows us they ain't sacred to show off there goods.. And when they become ower girl friend we are still ok with it case we know ever other guy is looking at the same thing we were at one time and it makes us men feel good to know that guys are looking at what we have and they wish they had... Hope this helps

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    • Ok, makes sense. thanks!

    • You welcome and yes it is possible for a decent guy to like a girl who dresses skimpy lol they are just like any other guy

  • Well in AZ we have a lot of these women and they are in the clubs every night. So I think it depends where your next business conference is going to be ; you might buy a gray wool or black mini skirt and one of those black and white St. John's short jackets with a white blows that has a ruffled front.

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  • if she dressed sexy for me, yes I like it. if she dresses like that for other people or when I'm not around then no I dont. it rare that decent guys would risk approaching a girl that dresses like that just in case she is a slut.

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  • yes, and I would still treat her like a princess.

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  • It depends if she was with me I wouldn't mind but if she is always going around with a bunch of other guys flirting and wearing skimpy clothes , depending how much I like her I'd probably dump her

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  • I love it everyone in a while just not all the time. It's very sexy and hot.

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  • Yes.

    I am the one who loves slutty girls.

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  • i don't like it I wouldn't be with a girl that dressed like that on any occasion.

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    • I think I'm a good guy. its weird when I i express the type of girl I want people always call me judgmental. id just like to think I have high standards

  • yes I think its fine to wear that

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  • im a very decent guy and I love it don't be prejudging ppl

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  • I don't like such girls.

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  • Yes, its possible, depends on the circumstances, like hot weather etc,

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What Girls Said 6

  • you are really conservative aren't you?

    anyone can get people to like them. doesn't matter how you dress there will always be someone out there who just doesn't give a sh*t how you dress they are focused on you as a person. or he could just want to bang her. and if she really does dress revealing then lots of guys will be drawn to her.

    you seem quite ignorant and judgmental for thinking that no "decent" guyscould ever "really like" "slutty" girls. since when does mini skirt and heels always = "slutty" ? what century are you living in?

    ironically you mentioned in a comment below that you can be "crazy about sex" but not dress revealing in public. did it not occur to you that you can dress revealing for attention or just fashion, whatever, and not be a "slut" ? maybe the guys who aren't truly superficial won't care about how a girl dresses or her appearance on the outside but just care about her personlaity, interests, etc. on the inside. its so funny how you call guys who are willing to date someone who dresses one way "superficial jerks" but guys who judge just as harshly (only in favor with your opinions) "decent." again, the irony is killing me.

    i think the reality is that you are a superficial jerk. you call your friends way of dressing "slutty" and in judging her insinuate that it was unfathomable that a girl who dressed like that could ever be interesting enough to attract decent guys simply for the way she looks. you want to see a superficila jerk? take a look in the mirror babe. btw who talks about their friends like that? jeez...

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    • I completely agreeeee well said

    • Thanks for the long answer :) she's actually not my friend anymore...anyway, its just that I do love fashion and every guy I meet is just being a jerk about it. THEY label ME as a brainless fashion addict. (they're not interested in my personality at all) I just know that all of my friends who have decent bfs dress like guys. I accepted that but now that other girl who dresses like a whore has a boyfriend who's not a jerk, I'm kinda confused now lol (and yes my mom's really conservative, it might....

    • Have rubbed off on me)

  • No matter how hard a man fights it, he's going to either look, think about looking, look but try to play it off if he's with his lady, or approach her.

    From what I know and have seen, there's a certain guy that goes for the girl in the skimpy clothes. The "decent" guys that I know will definitely look or whatever, but they're not taking her home to momma if you know what I'm sayin'.

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  • yea it is possible but most of the time not really. I mean a guy likes it when his girl will dress sexy, but only for him and after he knows that you aren't easy or anything. that way he respects you but a guy doesn't like it when his girl is dressing all sexy when he isn't around or for other people.

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    • I disagree. He would be with her if he didn't accept her behavior. She must have been dressing that way before they met.

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      Which kind of means she was single....Girls normally wear sh*t like that when they are single to yes get the attention from guys which is kind of yes a slut! All they try and get is attention so they can get into a relationship...others not so much but once they start dating someone they should obv stop wearing it especially if the guy doesn't approve. Do you really think a guy wants his girlfriend to go around getting looks from other guys.

    • Honestly I think some guys like it when other guys want what they already have

  • some guys that are ok want girls that other guys would want. It like a trophy that have around

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  • aslong as your modest and have good morals it doesn't matter how you dress. to be attractive you have to feel attractive not in a vain way but in a way where you feel good. if that means you wear leggings and short tops then by all means do so. personally I think classy is the way forward as you look and feel good yet your covered but slightly revealing. so there's something there for the male imagination. x.x

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  • i dunno, my boyfriend also liked me in a mini skirt.

    A lot of guys like nice legs. Its not about whether it looks slutty or not, its more about them liking your legs.

    high heels are a pain tho.

    The pain women have to go through to look good : (

    at least mini skirts don't hurt or give you hip problems in the near future!

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    • I agree!

      lol I'm feeling sorry for all the short women who have to / want to wear heels everxday.

      no wonder, girls are moody xD

    • Yeah maybe they get a bit bitchy after having sore feet and cankers!

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