Okay, as a bigger and by most standards unattractive dude, do most people think of guys like this as idiots a la homer Simpson or peter griffin or the king of queens. Are we seen as sweet but dumb idiots who shouldn't even have girlfriends even though they do. I am just wondering if people think this a lot. I know people say personality matters, but at my age I don't think it does. I am 21 and sadly most girls I know care more about looks, same with most guys too.
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If you use fat jokes to make fun of yourself then I'm gonna think you're an idiot but no I don't think the public in general think that...its only in movies. Don't worry...i know looks matter to a degree but in the end it will never keep a girl and guy together. Whatever persona you put on is what girl sees you as...if you're serious...then you're serious. In my opinion...i do not see overweight guys that way. whatever persona they put on is what I see them as...If I can't take them seriously and trust them then I will probably think their dumb idiot. If people can confide in...then nobody will take you as an idiot. have a balance...you can be funny yet people can trust you.1