I have a boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I'm also the type of girl that gets along better with guys than I do with girls. here's the problem, every time I meet a guy that I want to be friends with he either ends up liking me way too much, wants me to leave my boyfriend for him or they just want to f*** me. I don't know why this happen, but it just does. and I'm sick of it, I'm tired of always having to tell them to stop or back off. I never give them a reason to think that I like them or want them in any way. people say it's because I joke around a lot and laugh or smile a lot too, but I can't help it it's just who I am. I don't understand how guys can be that stupid and misunderstand it! tell me what I'm doing wrong or what I can do to make them stop because at this rate I won't have a single friend at all soon.
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I am the same way. It is harder to get along with girls, since it usually ends in some sort of competition. Especially if a lot of guys like you, then other girls get all jealous and ask the "what does she have that I don't?" Here is what I have done:
1. Didn't shut up about guys I liked in front of them.
2. Said stuff like "you are a brother to me."
3. Learned to get along with girls.
It is important to have female relationships. I don't really have any close female friends, but I hang out and talk to girls more than guys. My closest friend is a guy, but most guys I don't become close friends with. If a guy likes you, he can't really be a close friend. And if they want you to break up or have sex with them, don't hang out with them. They don't respect you and don't deserve your friendship.0