Girls, are u intimidated by guys who are really into fashion?

[Anonymous]

Im talking style wise, do u think its attractive or really intimidating?
like these;

So yeah im obviously talking about guys whom are educated in fashion and aren't afraid to articulate their desired style and look
Men often do feel intimidated, specially when a girl is dressed like "this", they think its "funny" or "out there"
But i do know women look at fashion differently are more educated on the subject (except when theyre close minded ofc)... So girls tell me would u be intimidated/be more distant, or would u be like; wow finally a guy whom is into fashion, into taking care of himself?(obv there are more styles than these, just closest to my style)

[LostPanda]

I'm not closed minded, but I don't understand anything about fashion, at least I think I don't.
I think it's ok, I like a man who takes care of himself, as long as that pleasure doesn't turns into something really egocentric and superficial.

[Asker]

how u mean egocentric?
so u wouldn't make weird faces when a guy like this approaches u?
Understanding is no problem, id (if she wants) introduce her to fashion, cause i must admit i do think its important :p

[zombiebabe]

hmm it depends... but if its too much i'd think that he's the high maintenance type.. which is a turn off

[Asker]

Would u say given examples look like high maintenance "attributes"?

[BlueStorm89]

I like a guy who can rock something and feel good about there outfit. I don’t want to be walking around with a regular dude with a shit a belt and a pair of jeans. I need taste I need spicy.

[Asker]

Wish more girls think like this, as said most girls just dabble into trends but nothing deeper, they so superficial (boys too by the way lol)
Like i also love a girl who can dress, like really extend her personality

[deraz24]

I guess it means you have to keep up with him but I want my guy to at least want to look good, better than looking bummy

[Asker]

But u wouldn't mind basic?

[deraz24]

What's considered basic tho some nice shoes and a put together fit is fine to me

[Asker]

well thats what i meant :p

well keeping up is a big word tbh if u at least try to dress well, but i do admit i have a preference for a girl who dress very stylish

[deraz24]

Yea I just like to look good, doesn't have to be designer everything

[Asker]

nah a lot of people think that fashion/stylish means wearing big brands
its true some dope pieces are only for avalaible from those brands
but most of it is sold in H&M, Zara etc...

as long as u feel great, no worries tbh

[deraz24]

Yep most of the time I get good deals but I still shop at all the typical places h&m, f21, and some small places

[Asker]

man forever 21 was horrible here, i went in there with greatest expectations
it was like 3 stories big, and all of them were for girls like wtf
just a small piece, like a little corner that the architect prolly made per accident was given to the boys, horrible experience specially when u got to wait on ur mom

but yeah me, i just wait till a certain period and cop, like rn i might start thinking about buying winter pieces already

[deraz24]

Thats bad lol, and yea every store is diff. Thats smart I was doing that last yr

[Asker]

yeah but this summer been abit of a mess
the gender thing in stores is a real problem tbh

[deraz24]

Lol didn't notice I hope not to to see it honestly

[Asker]

mens department always lacks the latest stuff, takes forever or just comes never
women always have the bigger department and the latest stuff..

[deraz24]

Again it depends on the store to me every h&m has a pretty big men's side, it differs w/ f21

[Asker]

damn here nah, its mid size and they never seem to refresh it...
do u live in a big city perhaps? or near one?

[deraz24]

Normal sized city when I went to a more popular neighboring city the h&ms always has a good sized mens wear, as does rue 21

[deraz24]

Tilly's is cool too

[Asker]

never heard of Tillys, whats that?
well all depends city and country, id expect the more stylish stuff to be in like a paris etc...

[deraz24]

All of what's shown in the pics are good to me, some Nike's won't hurt either. Look it up you might like they're stuff its kind of a beachy/festival vibe

[Asker]

yeah theyre remind me of Urban Outfitters, same concept abit

If i ever saw a girl dressed like the 2 last pics at a party, i wouldn't think twice
but those are so rare tbh, most girs if were talking party wear like to keep it "basic" and just go out with a black dress
id like to see a girl really go out there once u know, floor the weak people and awe the strong :p

[deraz24]

Lol yea it depends on the setting

[forestprincess]

I mean hell yeah that'd be awesome and then they could help me pick out my outfit to like go together so it doesn't clash it'd b great

[Asker]

Yeah u understand, id be glad to do things like that tbh
Like in my opinion its important to have a girl with sense of style or at least dresses well

[forestprincess]

exactly! like I can't stand when I'm not dressed well (spare the sweats at home bc no one judges at home lol)

[Asker]

Man this relatable as hell, i just can't go out looking like a mess, its not something pretentious, its just about feeling comfortable in ur skin, its like ur own language, some sort of wearable moodboard 😂

I dont mind joggers tbh in that cozy style

[Chanel1981]

I would not call this an example of fashion. You're style maybe but not fashion. Certainly not intimidating

[Asker]

How is it not fashion? Fashion is not a bunch of HF brands thrown together...

[Chanel1981]

HF brands?

[Asker]

High fashion brands (Chanel, Raf, D&G etc..)

And if u meant fashion in general, this is one way of articulating it

[Chanel1981]

I see what you're saying. Everyone has their own take on fashion and style :)

[Asker]

exactly, are u into fashion?

[Chanel1981]

Somewhat but my style is quite different than yours.

[Asker]

ow yeah these are few examples of my style, i have some inspo albums if you would like to check those out?
which style (s) do u have :p

[Chanel1981]

I tend to stick with a more classic and preppy look (Ralph Lauren, Burberry)

[Asker]

like in a college type of way? or?

[Chanel1981]

Not necessarily I just like classic lines

[Asker]

i must admit im a great fan of what Ralph did in the 90s, now its abit boring in my opinion not in my lane
like if id go classy, id go for something like the 3rd pic and swap the hoodie with a shirt

Any embroidered pieces?

[Chanel1981]

It all depends on the event. As a rule I'm not a fan of embroidery but I do like monogramming certain pieces

[Asker]

how u mean as a rule? :p
ow man, those gucci jeans with flowers and snakes embroidered was so dope, shame fast fashion shops never had them for men

monogramming coule be cool, but id prefer embroidered pieces over them

would u be more attracted (surface lvl like presence wise) to a guy with basic style? or someone with more fashion sense?

[Chanel1981]

For men I also like traditional styles. Think classy casual

[Asker]

like polos and stuff?

[Chanel1981]

Depends on the occasion but I like Oxford shirts and such for casual wear

[jstacey22]

I love it when they are educated in fashion and it makes hem look better and they know how to take care of themselves.

[Asker]

Most girls here seem so intimidated, I don't know
Like they love it but are so hesitant

But yeah most girls here are into the fashion basics, so they might be weirded out too

[Anonymous]

If he only wears expensive clothing 24/7 without relaxing I would think he was a fuckboy. I just don't think flashing fancy expensive clothes are appropriate.

[Asker]

fashion doesn't mean wearing expensive clothes only, i could recreate any of those fits with affordable pieces tbh

depends which event tho, sometimes u gotta be chique and show em tbh :p

[Opinion Owner]

That's okay.

[TsundereMatrix]

Yeah it makes me feel like I'm not good enough for them.

[Asker]

Srsly? 😂
Cause i know my irl friend always tells me i look very intimidating

[TsundereMatrix]

I mean yeah. I'm a t-shirt and jeans type of gal with no sense of style. I put no effort into it.

[Asker]

Well its not like i pick my girls out based on style it does help ofc, but if a girl wouldn't mind being restyled abit id def help tbh
Things like style can be changed

[Amelia444]

Yeah a bit but a turn on no less

[Asker]

Why the intimidation?

[Amelia444]

I love fashion and I'm scared they might judge my fashion sense or tell me yeah no change

[Asker]

😂😂😂 why? Id only do it to help u tbh
And cause we see potential ofc, its flatterin in a way

[Amelia444]

Yeah but it might cause fights , I get Chu

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂 fights for what

[Amelia444]

Fights of clothes opinions

[Asker]

Id joke about it but never ever really fight about it😂
Thats childish lmao

[Amelia444]

Well I guess I'm just not used to mature guys 😅😫💖

[Asker]

Well, i do admit, im more into playful/immature girls myself 😆 they tend to be more relaxed and eased

[midnightcavern01]

no but it brings up questions.

[Asker]

Such as? 😂

[AryannaAng]

not at all... he can be cool 😎

[Asker]

Are u a fashionable person urself? 😎

[AryannaAng]

oh yeaaah. I'm Italian. Here guys are always on point

[Asker]

oh damn, are u into fashion like the modelling and stuff?
How would u define ur style, cause honestly i like people (specially girls) to be a little diverse, so not in 1 box u know, gets boring in my opinion

[AryannaAng]

Yes exactly! Yeah I have a personal taste/sense of style. Most of my clothes are even customized -for my body figure- by mother... or I sew them by myself. - It's a hobby of mine taken indeed by my mother- I usually keep it simple and wear unique - and usually oversized or very long- jackets on pair with a nice pair of heels, sneaker or -sometimes- I'm into those dandy masculine shoes but they have to be paired with a skirt or a really cool pair of trousers to look always femine. I also wear on special occasions palazzo pants, I can talk about that for years hahah. To pull off on outfit you have always to match fabrics, accessories and colours to make yourself stand out and be fashionable not an attention seeker though. I always dress with modesty but on point. Showing a lot of skin doesn't equal be -necessarily- sexy or that much of a cool girl.

[AryannaAng]

Here in Italy be fashionable is fundamental. Believe me, you can't go to the grocery store with a pajamas on. hahah

[AryannaAng]

* and pair with

Sorry for the mistakes!

[Asker]

damn are u aspiring to become designer or do things within the fashion or clothing world? :p
ow man, oversized jackets, skinny jeans (specially those leather ones) with high heels are to die for when a girl wears those, its just really sexy and fierce u know, and as u mentioned its not about dressing like a clown mixing all the colors of the rainbox together, its wearing clothes that really compliment u and ur presence so u dont force to stand out

palazzo are great to, if matched with a dope top on the right even ofc, theyre *wow*

i dress on the line i think, but it depends. Like if i would walk in Paris or London i wouldn't stand out that much, where i live most people keep it basic and i look extravagant, but as long as i feel great i have np :p

[AryannaAng]

yeah!! Right!! It's great you have a sense of style!! Yeah be confident, guys well dressed are cool. I have to be honest here, If a guy wear all the time boring clothes I will assume he's boring as well. Plus it would be weird if I go out with a guy with no sense of style whatsoever. And I don't mean a guy who dress in a simple way but a guy who hasn't a sense of style. Don't listen to the other people here, you're definitely cooler than the majority of guys. And you will find a cool girl as well. Luckily girl - most of them- like be on point and well dressed.

[AryannaAng]

No actually I'm in the medical field. First year of university : )

[AryannaAng]

*like to be *guys which are well dressed

[Asker]

ikr, like when i see or meet a girl with her own dope sense of style, my eyes are just glued to her, like its some natural attitude, she just sticks out without effort, she doesn't need to be loud or arrogant etc... just her presence because of her style is enough to wow me

:p most guys u know, either respect for me it and tell me;
i wouldn't wear what u wear, but ur cool it fits u all and u dont look tryhard

and some others (who dont really understand fashion) tell me i look funny or what is that. But at the end of the day who cares lmaoo i wear clothes i like cause i like em and feel good in them
And most girls whom are into fashion applaud me for it and those girls are the ones i like, im sure if id see u irl we would get along damn well :p
its not often i find people i can talk about fashion with
idc how a man is dressed, id never laugh at another guy or girl for that but dont brag or insult others, simple

[Asker]

lmao medical field, thats very "odd" :p
why dont u pursue fashion? i mean its italy, like one of the capitol countries of fashion

how about joggings? u know the "cozy" style? joggings matched with faux fur etc..

[AryannaAng]

Oh yeah I like them!! Well I believe I can do a lot of things in my life, I don't want to limit myself! Being able to stand out in the fashion industry is craaaazy. A close friend of mine though study fashion in a private and expensive collage in Milan. Oh she's great!

[AryannaAng]

*and being * studies

[Asker]

will she go for runways or just start her own brand/shop?
Yes its true its really important to follow ur hear, specially in todays society and as long as u like doing the medical stuff, but u just seem to be so energetic when u discuss fashion so i was surprised u didn't study it :p
do u follow it all like for example do u know Vittoria Ceretti? :)

cozy style is so dope, its perfect for those lazy days at school, not too much effort, just simple still stylish and comfy :p