Honestly I am sick of girls and I am sick of people anymore. I am a pretty damned good guy. I play guitar, I get good grades, I'm smart, funny ,and involved in a lot of things. SO why the hell don't cute girls like me. Aren't girls supposed to care more about personality. I know I don't look like f***ing Jacob from twilight but honestly what guy does. Also, I know I should lose weight if I want to date someone attractive, but I don't think I am terribly fat. I'm big yes, but I am not just some obese mofo who sits on his ass all day playing COD. All of this just makes me jaded. I know girls don't like to approach,but I've been rejected by a few girls just because of my looks. So what the hell is the point of trying anymore when girls are such entitled bitches who think they need a god damned perfect prince charming.? Honestly if I was hot it wouldn't even matter what my personality was. And don't lie ladies you know it's true. I see it all the time with good looking girls who are nice and have great personalities dating jerks. So your either hypocrites or just idiots. Why can't you even consider me. I mean what's so bad about someone like me. I know I am not perfect, but neither are you.
Hmmm.. well first things first, don't call girls bitches. If you go around feeling that angry, girls will sense that and run v. fast. I think you are in a tough age range. Girls can be more shallow at your age but we get wiser after a while. Guys are the same way too - they'll go after the hot babe in the room - they also get wiser as they age... (well some of them)! That being said, there are gals out there who don't care about looks. That's the advantage of you being a guy, wanting to date gals. We women have the amazing ability to make any man we are in love with, the most attractive man in the world! I once dated a man shorter than me and I swear, when I was in love, he was a full 4 inches taller than me (in my mind). What you need to do is focus on yourself - do things you enjoy, exercise, and stop focusing on girls so much. Women find a confident, happy, with hobbies, much more attractive. You might even meet women during some of these activities. Get to know them, hang out as a group first... take it slower. Women build relationships through talking and sharing information... so that's what you should do - ask questions, share some info. about yourself, and always be kind and a gentleman. Good luck and take care of yourself first!
Many girls do go for personality more. Maybe you're just picking out the wrong type of girls. Not all girls want a prince charming, I sure as hell don't. Nobody is perfect. I think you just have the wrong attitude, be more friendly and approachable and don't try to go for the snobby stuckup girls. They're the bitches. Their is plenty of other normal girls out there that I'm sure would love to go out with you. You just have to find them.
First thing is first, quit caring what the girls think (That bugs them far more than you will ever know).
2nd If you think your fat they are going to think your fat... If you act fat that is how they will take it. If you have a serious problem with it the hit a gym, go on a diet, whatever works for you.
3rd quit looking and trying to find a girl
It seems you have some anger about the topic but heck so did I. The thing that worked for me was this; have a little swagger to yourself, don't think of yourself as fat, think hell I am the best damn guy they are gonna get if they don't see it the "F" them. Don't mope around and such about it because that just pushes them away quicker.
They look like they are dating jerks because the guy acts like he doesn't give a flying you know what about them or who they are or what they look like. That is what you have to do, ya you will feel like your coming off as an ass but your just saying to all the girls out there "I am me if you don't like it then I don't need you"
Have some fun, plenty of girls I know take it as flirting to do nothing but make fun of them. Give them crap about stuff have a good time.
Really Pay ATTENTION HERE PLEASE
I have said it 2 times already saying it a 3rd to get the point across
You have to look at yourself in the mirror, if you don't like what you see you will reflect that in the way you walk, talk, and everything else. If you comfortable with who you are, and you act like it then they will see that in the same ways.
It will drive them crazy because there is something about you that changed but they won't know what. Hell if it is a girl you have never seen before she will turn her head.
Biggest thing about girls is they are attracted to guys with confidence (Well all of the attractive ones I know are) if you have confidence in yourself and don't care what they think they will try hard to make you care.
You gotta put the work in and hit the gym. Sorry, but there are plenty of guys out there who are interesting and have great personalities... along with girls. Why should a good girl who hits the gym, takes care of her body, go flocking to an overweight dude who plays guitar? I know that sounds harsh, but it's true. You're body is your temple.. treat it right and get the girls.