Everyone says "look aren't everything to them, and I'm the perfect guy, why aren't you with me". But obviously enough guys act like this, and your right. Guys say this stuff in public about how much ass they get and how they want to f*** that girl with the fat ass. and the Asshole guys truly mean it, and truly live by it. They get what they want, use girls, who in turn lose trust in every male.
The guys go along with it, because the go who stands up and says "come on bros, don't treat women like that", doesn't find him self going out with his 'friends'. Obviously everyone is different but as far as the type of guy you are talking about, I find this to be the case.
Real men, might catch himself looking at you and smiling but he wants to fate the person you are, not the person you look like.
But in this artificial world we live in, the better you look the longer we catch ourselves staring. But that doesn't make you (not you specifically) a better women..
P.s the little tanning bed princess you are describing is definitely any type of women I would be interested in.
How often have I said "she's cute"? Plenty. How often have I said "I'd tap that"? Only to my ex.
Put frankly, your guy friends are d***s. Also put frankly, they don't represent the full male population.
There are plenty of us who aren't interested in the skinny, tanned, blonde bimbos. I find "a little extra" to be just fine so long as "a little extra" doesn't translate to "spherical". You don't have to be skinny to be attractive, but you do have to be healthy.
Looks are everything to guys who are looking for nothing but sex. Despite what your opinion might suggest, that isn't all of us. And as many others have mentioned, I've seen tons of girls who do the exact same thing you're condemning men for. Case in point: how many girls do you think went to see New Moon/Eclipse for shirtless Taylor Lautner?
First off, a dude is only ever going to pursue a girl if he's attracted to her. Nuff Said.
Second, super tan blond girls aren't everything. I've never dated a blond girl. They've all been brunnettes. Your guys definitely don't represent the majority... every guy has different tastes, and theirs are just fakey blond girls.
No offense but your guy friends sound like they're kinda douchey. I rarely talk like that. Saying things like "tap that" sounds really dumb. I'll say a girl is hot,pretty,cute,etc but I don't go around saying I want to f*** them. What you described sounds perfect. Fake bakes are gross, non blonde is just awesome because I love dark hair. Also on your actual question. Why are looks everything to girls?
I don' t know, but looks are not EVERYTHING to me, I would rather get to know the person before I would get involved with her with anything. I think it is very sad that guys just judge girls on their looks if they would have sex with them or not. I am a guy, and I am never like that, I don't care how the girl looks, if she has an awesome personality and it super nice, that is when I know she is an awesome person and I could potentially see myself with her.
The first thing a guy notices is a females looks, it is not like we can 'see' your personality!
Also for the whole fake and bake blonde thingie I actually prefer paler brunnettes myself (think Kary Perry mmmmhhh...)
Not true for me. I dated my girl when she was average looking becuase I loved her personality. Some thought she was cute, some thought she was ugly. Well, she blossomed into a very beautiful girl and dumped me because I wasn't hot enough for her.