Hispanics and Asians aside
If there were NO rude, unnecessary, and wrong stereotypes against black women, then I THINK that men wouldn't have so much hesitation when they consider dating us...
I've seen so many racist comments on here AGAINST black people, so I'm coming back at you guys with my OWN biased opinions then.
White women can be beautiful, no doubt. But the average white woman is so plain and boring looking.
They all have the same type of hair. And they all seem to want to be blond. You guys don't age well worth a sh*t. Their skin deteriorates starting at like 25.
Sometimes I can see their veins through their skin...eww. Red/rashy skin...
And then the worst part is that they think by virtue of being a white girl, that they should have the world handed to them. I mean, even the ugly and uneducated ones think that they're entitled. That mentality makes them SO ugly.
They think that doors should be held for them all the time. They're so used to getting what they WANT because they were raised by white mothers who were given what they wanted by law ans tradition (slave times). It's SO annoying.
Anyway, BLACK WOMEN ARE SO MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL. (I'm of course taking into account that there are unattractive people of every race).
We have SO many beautiful skin tones, ranging from light, to dark dark ebony. Don't white girls only come in like, 3 shades? Yeah. *yawn*
We can rock every hairstyle in the book, from pin straight, to braids, to dreads.
WE AGE SO MUCH BETTER. Melanin is not a curse. It gives the skin more elasticity, so we're still beautiful into our 70s WITHOUT BOTOX. My mom is 57 and she looks not a day over 40. Real talk.
We have beautiful and NATURAL curves. Our hips, our legs, our butts. COME ON. Our lips. So much more aesthetically pleasing than that thin and white prototype the beauty industry likes to perpetuate.
There's so much more variety in our race, as far as looks go.
Yes you will find ugly, stupid, loud, ridiculous people of EVERY race. But I'm tired of coming on here and seeing black girls being dissed by all these internet nobody's. It's so hard to read through all the men who are like "yeah, I'd never date a black girl."
So I wrote this one for US.
We are smart, much more beautiful, professional, talented, we're just awesome.
And if you choose to discard the ENTIRE race based off a few bad encounters with a black woman, or because of stereotypes, or because of some movie or music video you watched, then I feel sorry for you. I really do.
My white co worker (male) said to me he'd rather date a black woman because he acknowledges that most white girls dress, act, and look the same.
ANDDD like I said in the beginning, white women can be very gorgeous. And this is not some racist rant. It;s just a blunt and rude awakening.
Michelle Obama > every other first lady.
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I can understand your hurt by people’s comments on here, but this really isn’t the right way to go about it, racisms fought with racism is not going to achieve anything. I think it’s mostly to do with stereotypes which is the reason guys are put off black women, I think it serves as a kind of prejudgement on them before actually getting to know them there self., after all it doesn’t take much to corrupt people’s minds, all they need is influence really.
I live in Europe and most the time guys don’t really seem put off by a women simply based on her being black. In fact id never actually heard of the majority of stereotypes about black women until a few years ago, all the black women I know and have met here don’t resemble the stereotype whatsoever. Personally skin colour would not be much an influence in who I believe is attractive, I could like someone that is as light as day to as dark as night. There are plenty of white women who are gorgeous. I also think black women are beautiful too. Despite stereotypes though, I don’t think some people would likely change their opinion on what they consider attractive, its almost as silly as saying every single guy has one idealistic standard on beauty and anything else after that comes second. I can find one girl from one race really attractive and another girl from the same race just as attractive but she may look completely different, so really I don’t find black girls any more attractive than any other race of girl, yet they are just as beautiful as any. A girls skin colour would nto be a deciding factor for me to choose what women I liked or not, id leave that to decide for myself, stigmas an’t what I focus on.
But what's this about white women don’t age well, that's simply not true anyone who doesn’t take care of themselves is not going to look good regardless, my mother is 53 and has no wrinkles on her face whatsoever, my mother never had the “world handed to her” simply because she was white in fact she never had a harsh life you wouldn’t believe and my family have no heritage of being slave owners so tis not fair to say all white people do, I find that quite offensive and I don’t see it as right to have a say in how someone elses life is run.
This thing about black women being the most diverse yet they all have natural curves, is a bit contradicting because your suggesting they are all the same yet somehow diverse. I know that's not true because I have seen black women without these features and white women with these features. It depends on the girl, black women are more diverse than this set look which I happen to find very attractive on them but I also like black women who are thin. If you would liek to talk about this send me a message.